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bestfriends for never?
ok soo heres what going on. my and my bestfriend (that i have been friends with for 3 years now) are trying to become friends again. after she kissed my boyfriend and slept over his house while i was going out with him at the time. he broke up with me last last monday and went out with my bestfriend!! and they both never even told me and i aksed her 3 times and she dennied it all 3 times!!! and then i found out and she was like lahh i`m sooo sorry and she tried to turn it all around on me but it didn't work! and she would talk shit behind my back and just yesterday she messaged me on myspace and was like ahh i really wanna be friends again blah blah blah ( a huge paragraph) and i was like idon't know i don't really trust you and you talked shit about me and now its like we never even met. i miss her sooooo mucha dn she misses me more then ever! and i just don't know what to do! it was the most bitchiest thing someone has even done to me!! really i wanted to die! and it wasn't just that i had a lot of other shit going on too! sooo should i be her friend again?
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wow. i feel like i'm in your shoes right now. that has happened to me. but just not more contrversial. i would actually dump your bestfriend. what friend would do that. she's just not a true friend if she turns around & talks shit. c'mon comman sense, who does that. She is really two-faced & yeah you can't trust two-faced people. She never had the right & so didnt your boyfriend. She knew you were in a good relationship, but she had to break it up. you just don't want any seocond chances.
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hmm this might sound totaly like woah what is she talking about.
but sometimes you have to forgive and forget. maybe give her another chance? people do stupid things for love. maybe she was lonely and was jealous of your relationship with your boyfriend and somehow managed to steal him. guys are stupid and they get suduced easily. and the guy maybe tempted her? shows how much he really cared about you. but then think about this. was this guy really right for you? or would he be better with your best friend?
its still really low and pathetic of her to do this. but think of this this way. was she the one who told you that they kissed or he slpet at her house? or was it someone else? because it might not be true. ppl change things around to make it seem more dramatic.
and a guy isnt really worth losing a friendship over. so tell her you are willing to forgive her but she has to make it up to you. and if anything happens like that again its over for real. sometimes ppl realize thier mistakes and need a second chance.
all you can do is listen to your heart and see what happens. if you really miss her it will be hard for you to hate her.
also if she denied it she knew it was wrong and didnt wnat you to get heart because of something that happened at the heat of the moment.if she denied it that means she wasnt proud of it and prolly this relationship with this boyfrined wont last long as soon as her guilt kicks in. so dont worry you will get even once she starts hating herslef for what she did to you.
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Personally, I believe in second chances over the minor things in life. But not this. What she did was completely ridiculous & if you try to fix things with her, you're only giving her the opportunity to walk all over you again. How do you know she's not going to pull this again? You don't. There are a lot more nicer friends out there who wouldn't even think about treating you that way. She's everything, but that.
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No, no, & no.
Don't be friends with her again.
Because, think about the good chance she'll do it again. She knew what she was doing, & she knew it would hurt you, if she did that. Shes not a true friend whatsoever. The only reason shes apologizing so much is because, shes trying to save her self, from everyone hating her. This same thing happened to me somewhat. Ditch her, she sucks.
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no no no no no no no no no. how can you even consider her your friend. if she was your friend she would have never done that to you or said anything behind your back. and she's supposed to be your "best friend" hun you could do better than that because that is quite ridiculous. but it's your choice, if you really wanna be friends with her again then i guess that is completely up to you. but if i were you, no.
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