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Stalker!
I was going out with this one guy that I really liked for a little over a month. But then he started wanting to know where I was, who I was with, and all that stuff. He called me a million times a day and when I didn't answer his call he'd keep calling until i'd pick up. or he'd leave messages cussing at me asking why the f*** I wasn't answering my cell. Plus, he wanted all my time and if I was busy, he would just ask to come with me and do it too or come with me and my friends. So, I broke up with him.
Now, he calls me still and leaves a million more messages, wants to be "friends" and now he's bugging me even more now then he did when we were going out. He says, "I love you, babe" and all that crap.
should I take it or call the cops or what??
please help me!
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Half of Abby 2: Well dont call the "popo" because they probably wouldn't do anything.
Half of Abby 1: If this happens at school I would talk to the guidance counselor. This is bad. Tell him that if he doesn't stop you will tell his mom and other important people.
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I was in a smiliar situation. I actually threatened the guy who was bugging me so much, that he eventually gave up. But in your situation, this guy sounds dangerous.
First step is to ignore it. Anything you say, can and will be used against you. It's as simple as that. This guy is trying to get a rise out of you and whatever you say, he will overanalyze it and think up new ways to bug you.
Ignore it for a while, but if it has already been a long time that he has been bothering you, threaten him. Say, "Listen, you need to leave me alone. If you don't stop I will call the police." That way, he has a fair warning. Don't argue with him about it, simply tell him that and end the conversation.
And if it continues, first tell a parent or an adult you trust. Maybe a counselor at school can help you, or you can talk to any adult that you trust. If you feel it is neccessary, call the police and report harassment. This guy sounds dangerous and psychopathic so it's best to let adults or the police handle the situation.
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Ok. Block him on msn or whatever is a step.
two, if he calls just don't answer, and why bother to read his messages or hear voice messages,
and if he knows where you live...........
NEVER GIVE THAT INFORMATION OUT TO PEOPLE YOU JUST MEET!
then the cops are a good thing to do too.
Cj
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That's considered abusing/harassing.
Go to the cops,
try for a restraining order.
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i would talk to the cops about it because hes alittle extreme and people like that could get violent so save all th evidence you have against him because youll need it
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If you bugs you through IM, save the instant messages, or print them. Save the emails, or print them too. Save the text messages, voicemails, everything. Save it all. Take it the police & get a restraining order. This kid sounds a little weird, and I wouldn't wanna be around him.
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What I would do, is save all of the messages. If you are under 18, you need to go to your parents first. And yes, I would talk to the police. This guy definitely sounds like a weirdo, and he would make me feel paranoid and unsafe.
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