Question Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 7:35 pm
i was talkin to my boyfriend one day on aim and he said he was gonna hack into my computer and i was like um no and he was like why not you have nothing to hide right? well he did it anyway and i know he did because he then proceeded to read me a myspace msg from some guy [i had just met him and he lives on the opposite side of the country so it was just a random msg] and was askin me about it like testin me and sayin i think this guy likes you and all this crap [he said i was cool. thats it] and i was like no how can he i dont even know him?! and he said so youre sayin he didnt say he likes you? and i was like no? and he said dont lie to me. i eventually got him to quit and he swore he wont do it again but i told him that makes me feel invaded and he was like well you have nothing to hide right? and i was like thats not the point! ugh so now i dont know what to do bc i feel i cant do anything on here cuz he'll hack into it. he always says he trusts me and ive never given him a reason not to its not like he was suspicious of me cheatin or anything, so he had no reason to do it! also anytime i say im msging or talkin to or goin out with one of my friends he asks who over and over again until i give him a name [he doesnt even know my friends personally except for 2]. ugh i hate it! i hate sharing so much info. but if i dont tell him he gets irritated with me and holds it against me. i dont know what my question is but helpp?? 16-f hes 17-m.
TheDayTripper answered Wednesday January 31 2007, 9:15 pm: Dump him,please.He isn't over protective;he's possessive.He's trying to control your life and he has to know every little thing about you.Eventually,he could end up not letting you do anything.
(On a side note,I would report him for invasion of privacy.It may not seem like it,but that's something serious.No one has the right to invade another persons privacy.) [ TheDayTripper's advice column | Ask TheDayTripper A Question ]
christina answered Wednesday January 31 2007, 8:05 pm: I would dump him. He claims he trusts you, but then he hacks into your computer to make sure you've got nothing to hide. Your privacy was invaded for no reason, and now you're scared to do anything else.
Leave him, because the chances of him doing it again are high.
holahayley56 answered Wednesday January 31 2007, 8:00 pm: Hes over protective. He probably cares about you so much, that he always wants to make sure you feel the same way, because hes also insecure. Maybe somewhere gave him a reason to doubt your trust. Who knows, guys are queer like that. haha, but anyways, I'd just be honest with him & just tell him how you feel.
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