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Parents love my ex!
My parents keep bringing up my
ex boyfriend. I broke up with him because
he told me he liked another girl too.
Well, my parents keep asking about him.
I've told them numerous times NOT to bring
him up, and not to ask my about them.
I've told them what happened and everything
but my mom tells me I'm just being sensitive.
How do I get them to stop?
They won't listen to me!
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i cant believe your mom said you were being to sensitive because he liked another girl...its alittle odd. but anyways have you asked them why they keep bringing it up. ask them. if they say they think you should reconsider him then tell them your not interested in him anymore so why would you date someone that you dont have feelings for anymore (say it wheter you do or not to get them to drop it) its kind of like a guy shaving a mustach when he doesnt have hair on his upper lip its just pointless irritation.so you would just assume move on with your life and dont understand why its that big of deal hes not the only guy on earth...it would help to if you new any bad things about him that you could tell him but if theres not just leave it at that.if they dont drop it just ignore it and eventually theyll realize your not going to have a relationship with him again and lose interest.
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Remind them of the fact that he liked another girl during the time you were dating.
Remind them about how a relationship should be based on trust and honesty, and if he wants to run with another while he has a girlfriend, then he isn't very trustworthy.
Remind them that you aren't being sensitive, you are protecting yourself from being used as a floor mat by a man.
Remind them that you deserve better than that.
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depending on how old you are, and your parents view on the subject, you can tell your parents that if they like him so much, youll just go have sex with him. my parents used to bring up my ex all the time, it didnt last too long. you can always try asking your mom to tell you about one of her exes.
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