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judging family
I see my dad's side of the family every week usually and they judge me a lot and never believe what I say since I'm too young to know any better. I'm 17 and I've had to grow up quickly due to a harsh childhood. I think I should know what I think and believe and they somehow still don't believe me. I have given up on having real conversations with them, which I miss, so what should I do to get them to trust what I say? I really am out of ideas here and they are my family so I do need them.
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i dont know what there talking about your almost an adult. i know what you mean i had to grow up when i was 11. if you havent did anything to mislead them and are already talking to them in a logical manner and acting like an adult thentheres not alot you can do with people like that...really its their own ignorance...you can either talk anyways whether they like it or not...decide to just not have much to do with them..stop seeing them completely..or just let what they roll off your back...but its best to just be true to your self nomatter what anyone has to say about it.every person is diffrent.i understand that its your family but you have a right to be yourself and speak your mind to. maybe you could tell them how it truly makes you feel and if they cant accept you then that doesnt mean its got to weigh you down.
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If you just stay quiet about it, they will never find out. Talk about it to them and tell them excatly what you told us. That you miss having real conversations with them. Hopefully all goes well. Keep me udated<33
-Krazyy
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Talk to your dad about them judging you. If he is also then talk to him too. Thats the best thing you can do. So talk to them and something will happen. I hope everything goes well for you!
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