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there is a boy who is so cute but...
ok there is this guy i really really like but im not sure if he likes me he is sooo funny and cute but there are other people that like him to but he doesnt even give them the time of day so i started talking to him on myspace but he never answers back every time i see him or talk to him i get butterflies in my stomach im not the prettiest girl in the bunch but im definately not ugly people tell me im pretty but i dont think i really am so i was wondering what i could do to make him notice me more i would also like to know from guys wat they look for in a girl PLEASE
HELP!! by the way im 13 and female
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Hey. Well if you want to stand out towards this guy try just try to be nice, friendly, and outgoing. I wouldn't go to any extremes of changing your clothing or hair because he may just look at you as cute for trying to do something like that. Although, if it makes you more confident, go for it! A lot of times guys don't even realize this many girls like him and he may just consider them all friends in his class or something like that. I wouldn't get nervous around this guy because he probably doesn't even realize what an item he is (sorry for the use of words heh heh). But anyways, he probably doesn't always answer you on myspace because a lot of times people really don't feel they need to answer you. They're probably just pleased you commented them in the first place and there are so many things to get distracted by on the internet that they never think to answer people all the time. Who knows he may secretely like you too, you never know. I really hope this helped you and good luck! =)
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okay here we go. just get the nerves to go talk to him. too bad if you have butterflies in your stomach, your never gonna get noticed if you back down! so just go up there and say "Hey,I'm (your name).
Hope i helped.
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To be honest, this guy doesn't seem interested in noticing anyone at the moment. It may be in part because, as you say, there are a lot of interested girls and he doesn't particularly NEED to "pick one", so to speak. It may also be that (assuming he's the same age as you) he's too young to be seriously interested in dating or romance; remember, girls tend to mature faster. Or he might have no idea the effect he has on you or anyone else - guys can be astoundingly clueless sometimes.
You tried talking to him on Myspace, and he didn't reply. That doesn't mean he DOESN'T like you, but it's hardly encouraging. I don't know what else you've tried, but if you're not getting anywhere no matter what you do, you might just have to give up on this one guy.
If you want to know how to be attractive to guys in general, it's hard to know what to tell you, because guys are all different. There is no one answer. The best thing I can tell you is to pick what you would LIKE them to find attractive about you and do your best to become that, because inevitably some of the guys will like it. There's no point in making yourself be something you're essentially not in order to attract a guy, because in time you'll get tired of pretending or he'll see right through it, and it will all be over anyway.
Don't get too stuck on one guy right now. You'll be amazed at what happens to the boys over the next year or so. All of a sudden, you'll see all kinds of possibilities, and you'll chuckle over how cute you once found ol' whats-his-name.
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You dont want to seem to desperate so have you tryed playing hard to get? Maybe do something to your hair stand out a bit!!
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