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does he like me? 14 f.
Okay, so I'm a 14 year old female. There's this guy in one of my classes, and he's a junior, so he's probably 16-17. Since the beginning of the year, he has always paid "special attention" to me, like teasing me and stuff. I even recall a while back in October-ish, I was walking in the hallway afterschool, l and he was with his friend, and he stopped to talk to me for no reason at all. Back then, I thought he was kinda hot but never seriously considered him as a potential bf because a guy 2 years older than me having a crush on ME? The notion was impossible.
But as time went on I noticed more and more hints being dropped by him..for example, he always holds open doors for me and makes a huge scene of it "HERE, [myname], LADIES FIRST!". And when any of his friends try to talk to me, he instantly turns and stares at me. Whenever I talk to HIM, he stares right at me and gves me this huge grin.
Now, he's always like looking at me in class, especially when I talk to any guys. But I don't know if I'm just imagining the signs or if he teases me just to look cool in front of his friends. Or maybe he's just a friendly guy.
Oh, let me add some more details about us, I guess. I gave him a present over christmas break (it was just a card lol) and he seemed to really like it, he had this big smile on his face. And he's always telling me how nice I look. Also, I'm the girl he talks most to in class (this isn't much though, because there arent a lot of other girls in the class and all the girls are freshmen) I expect HIM to tell ME if he likes me or not, because he's a junior, and if I say no to him (which I wouldnt), it shouldnt be a big blow to his ego. But he keeps on dropping hints that he likes me as something..more. That's where I'm getting confused. Luckily there's a winter formal coming up on the 9th that he can ask me to AND valentine's day 5 days later. Think I should ask him to the dance?
oh and there was also this time in December, when we had free time in class and him and his friends were talking about THE basketball game of the season, and suddenly the guy turned to me and asked me if I was going. I told him I wasn't, and he asked, "why not?" Of course, me being STUPID and MISSING the hint, I said "i'm kinda busy," when I really wasn't (i was completely and totally free!!), because I was embarassed at being singled out like that. If i were smart i would've said "no, because I can't get a ride". and he mightve invited me to come. sorry it's so long T_T
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Guys take rejection hard, so it might be a blow to his ego, but that won't happen because you like him, right? You may have missed some opportunities but don't miss any more. There is nothing wrong with asking him out, but some guys prefer to do the asking and like a girl to be the challenge. It is a macho thing. What is this guy like? Be a little flirty, a little mysterious, but don't miss the next opportunity. If it is getting close to the dance date and he has not asked anyone out, ask him. I would give him a little time to ask you first and you can make sure to give him the vibe you are interested in him by paying attention to him, smiling at him etc.. Good luck!
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Hey. From everything you've told me, from an outsiders point of view it is Very obvious he likes you A lot =). I would definitely go for it and ask him to the dance and I think he would definitely say yes if your positive you're the only girl he does this with. So yes he likes you and yes I would ask him if I were you. Just be careful because a lot of times older guys use younger girls. Now he may be the nicest guy ever so you can't listen to me but just be careful. I really hope I helped and good luck! =)
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Just because he is a couple of years older, doesn't mean he doesn't have an interest in you. It sounds to me that he does. Maybe he is not too shy to hint around, but too shy to come right out and say it.
I would say that if he shows this much interest in you on a daily basis, your chances are high of him accepting an invite to go to the dance together. I would ask him to the winter formal, then you may be able to have a date to both dances.
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