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major problem


Question Posted Sunday January 21 2007, 9:10 am

ok, i have a major problem. i had sex the other day with my boyfriend... we didnt use a condom because he said he can control himself from coming. it was only for like 3 minutes and i said that we needed to stop and we did. i am scared now because i had my period on the 23 of december and its the 21 of january!! i am really scared and dont know what to do!!

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thelaura answered Sunday January 21 2007, 10:37 am:
What the columnist said below about being sick the next day if you are pregnant, is totally false.
He may be able to control himself from coming, but he sure as hell can't control pre cum.
Even if it was 3 minutes, that short amount of time has put you at great risk of pregnancy.
Wait to see if you come on your period. Bare in mind it can be late due to worrying.
If you don't, take a pregnancy test.
If you do, you can still take a test to be 100%
If you had sex less than 5 days ago, it's possible to still get emergency contraception. (not the pill, as it's only effective for up to 72 hours).. But I'm guessing this isn't the case?
Your best bet is to see if you come on your period and take a test.
If you are, you should speak to a doctor about your options. You aren't alone. and terminations (if you ARE pregnant and you are CERTAIN this is what you would want to do) are effective and easier in the early stages.
Never have sex without a condom again no matter how short the session will be.
Lesson learnt. :)
If you need any help or further questions, I'd be happy to help.
Try not to worry..

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duudee_advicer answered Sunday January 21 2007, 10:26 am:
Not to be rude, but this question isn't
worth answering. You could of easily searched
a questions of this exact sort and gotten
the same answers you will get now.

But, I'll take the time
to answer anyways.
You need wait and see if you get
your period or not. If you don't,
buy three pregnancy tests. If you
are pregnant, you need to inform your
parents, your boyfriend, and your
boyfriend's parents. Go to the doctor
to double check if you wish.
He/she will fill you in from then on.

Usually, if you're pregnant, the
next morning you feel sick and throw
up. If this hasn't happened, there's
a good chance you're not pregnant.

If you we're truly worried about
getting pregnant, you should of thought
about that before enganging in unprotected
sex, dispite what your boyfriend said.

Good Luck. <3

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uresweetie16 answered Sunday January 21 2007, 9:37 am:
1)u could go to a doctor
2)buy a pregancy test
3) you should tell your parents if it does not come in like a longs months period of time, you need to tell your bf

well i hope every thing works out well for you!

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