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I lied to a guy...and now I'm scared.

Question Posted Saturday January 20 2007, 6:49 pm

Okay. I have a guy friend...And I love him soooo much...he's definitely my best friend. But in the beginning of our relationship, I told him that I have a step father. It was accidental...and now I regret it. Thing is - I DON'T have a step father...but somehow it spilled out. Now he is questioning our relationship and he doesn't think he knows the "real" me. He thinks I'm hiding something...I know it's kind of stupid...But I dunno. ;_;...Should I tell him that I DO have a REAL father? It's runining our friendship...I know, I seems like a stupid reason...but we are supposed to be honest :( Should I tell him the truth?

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xcheerbabex108 answered Monday January 22 2007, 1:46 pm:
Communicate with him. Be honest. Because I know all about lying-I've done enough of it in my past- and the truth will come out, if not it already did. So just tell him the real story. Don't risk lying more to cover up other lies, because, one, it will come out, and two, you could lose your friendship/relationship.

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Musician answered Sunday January 21 2007, 8:45 pm:
Considering that he is your friend, you really should tell him the truth. A true friend wouldn't leave you just for a lie. They dont leave at all. If he doesn't want to be friends after you've told him the truth, let him go. He is not a true friend if anything can get in the way.


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MelLeDisko answered Sunday January 21 2007, 12:06 am:
Of course tell him the truth. If you don't, your relationship could turn troublesome. Because imagine if he were to find out from someone else or some other way; he'd feel hurt and betrayed. And that much bring the "trust" factor down alot.

I would just let him know soon. Just be like,"I do have something to tell you. You know my step-father? I don't have a step-father, I have a real father. I don't know why I told you I had a step-father, but it slipped out for some reason. That's the only thing though I've not been truthful about. Everything else about me, is me."
Or something like that.

He might get upset that you weren't honest, but hopefully over time after he's to himself to think and everything, he'll get over it and forgive you. If you guys are best friends, I'm sure he will.


I hope I helped.

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ElectricLime answered Saturday January 20 2007, 10:20 pm:
Yeah! What's so bad about him knowing if your father is real or not? I don't think it'd affect your relationship much.

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