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i like my bestfriends boyfriend
Ok here's the deal, I have this bestfriend were real tight 'n stuff, but like a year ago i started likeing her boyfriend and wen they went on a "break" I hooked up with him. When they went back out I still liked him and it bothered me bad because she treats him like shit and he deserves better. WELL like 3 months ago they broke up again and they stopped seein each other and I didn't see him or talk to him because I had no way of talking to him (he didn't have a phone or whatever) so I didn't see him until last week when they started seeing each other again (but not dating just talking) and i realized i still have feelings for him and I might even love him. I can't stop thinking about him and I don't know what im going to do. I feel like I would do whatever it takes to be with him and i kno this might sound bad but even if it hurts my bestfriend. I feel like we belong together cause we are so much alike and we have fun together and idk what to do!.. PLEASE HELP.
thanks.
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well if this friend of yours, is a true friend... she would understand.
It sound like your bestfriend and her boyfriend have been going out and then breaking-up for a while now... and that's obviously not good.
when 2 people are going out and are always breaking up and making up.... that means they're not good for each other. Now, i'm not saying you should hook her up with some other guy, and then steal him.
Just get to know him, and ask your friend if she can introduce you to him, that way she'll know that you both are going to be friends. Just keep in touch with him and eventually your friend will focus on another guy and then you can start moving along.
I hope I helped!!!
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Maybe one of the best things you could do in this situation would be to actually tell your best friend how you fell & how you have felt all along, becasue you cant really change your feelings. Keep in mind she is your best friend though, and friends, espically best friends should come before any guy, no matter how much you like them or love them because they will be there one minute and gone the next. Firends are forever. If it was ment to be, you probably would be with him already.
♥ xo
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