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my friend?
My friend is really nice but sometimes.. what she does .. it makes me mad.
We would make plans and then she would say she could pick me up. So i get ready and I'm all happy, I wait for a couple of hours and she never comes. Then I talk to her sister to see what's up and she's unaware of these plans.
She keeps doing this to me. Making plans and never following through.
What do I do?
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I have a friend that does this to me, so I know exactly how you are feeling right about now. Neglected, used, and plain out sad. Next time she asks if you want to do anything, just tell her you are busy. She might ask what is up, and you will just have to tell her the truth. Tell her that because she has let you down on more than one ocassion, you don't feel you want to get let down again. It may seem harsh, but she needs to hear it. It dosen't seem like she is a very good friend anyways.
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hey,
I feel that she is being really slack... I feel you wouldn't do this to her!! I am a believer of treat others how you would like to be treated!! I feel you need to sit down, if not face to face, o the phone or via text message or over the net!! Be open and tell her but don't come across as if you want to fight cause that could cause more problems than its worth!!! Also ask around see if she's only doing it to you or other people as well!!! If it's only you, i don't think she is too good of friend to you to let you down all the time!
Hoping you all the best
Elle!
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fist you have to see if she is like this to just you or if she does it to everyone.If its just you she might not be to serious about your guys friendship.Tell her how you fell and tell her to be honest wit u
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That's really pathetic and rude. Why do you just let her walk all over you & let her do this to you? Tell her. Don't put up with it anymore because if you don't tell her she's going to keep doing this to you. Talk to her & explain how you feel. Next time, you make the plans & if she ditches you again, don't even plan to hang out with her. She might get mad at you, but who cares. She shouldn't treat you like that and you shouldn't put up with it.
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