ok so i have this friend, she's not that great of a friend but thats not the point. anyway, i have this boyfriend. they dont like eachother, whatever. So she gave one of her hot co-workers my myspace and he's telling me im hot and stuff and that me him my friend and her boyfriend should go on a double date. one day my boyfriend logged into my account because i had told him about this guy and he asked if he could read some of the messages the guy sent me. he said if the guy kept bugging me after i told him i had a bf he would get mad and at least message the guy telling him something. the guy sent me another message right now giving me his number. i dont want to hook up with this other guy but i wouldnt mind talking to him, i have a lot of guy friends. i think my boyfriend would be mad if i called him. what should i do?
Additional info, added Sunday January 14 2007, 4:58 pm: i dont want to be with this other guy, theres no way. ive been with my bf for over a year and we wouldnt break up over this or anything. i just kind of want to talk to this other guy as a friend, my bf knows i have guys who are just friends. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? runawayxlove answered Sunday January 14 2007, 3:11 pm: hey, well if you know your boyfriend would care and you call the guy then your just looking for trouble. whatever you do DONT call the guy and keep it a secret from your boyfriend. chances are he will find out and you will end up single and lonely. just decide what one you wanna be with. the reason im saying this is because you sound confused. if you had a boyfriend adn saw this hot guy you wouldnt want to call him if you really loved your boyfriend. [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
mycalina answered Sunday January 14 2007, 3:11 pm: If your bf really likes you, he should trust you.
Tell him that you want to test how strong your relationship is, because in the long run, you're going to have friends who are guys. Talk to him BEFORE you call this guy. Also, talk to your friend, because if she keeps doing things like this, you probably won't be able to continue a friendship with her. [ mycalina's advice column | Ask mycalina A Question ]
xOaAlLiIeE answered Sunday January 14 2007, 2:33 pm: calling this guy could cause some problems, especially if you get caught by your boyfriend. think about how much you like your boyfriend - if he means a lot to you then try to just stay friends with this guy , and if your relationship isn't right for you, then take the risk, just make sure you know what you want
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