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My Ex Boyfriend.
I want to start talking to my ex boyfriend again. We were a really great couple, and loved each other very much. We never broke up because something was wrong with us, it was for other personal reasons. So I don't think it's too much of a problem, but here is the problem (or what may be a problem), I found out he's engaged. And please, do not think I'm trying to break them up or even get back together. I just want to talk as friends, what do you think about this? Please, any and all answers would be appreciated! Also, I want your honest opinions, there is no need to sugarcoat anything. Thanks in advance!
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try to keep in touch with him, like through e-mail or Im since he's in another state, and also, ex couples cannot always continue beeing friends , even though they didn't brake up for something wrong, sometimes what makes them loose contact with each other is the new girlfriend/boyfriend, will you like your housband to still talk to his girlfirend? some girls will say no so first start slowly keeping in touch with him, then if nothing goes worng(his girlfriend your boyfriend beeing pissed about this issue) continue it =) good luck anyway
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Personally, I can't nesscarily see it being the best idea. I mean, I can't really think of too many problems that could happen, but still. It's probably not the best idea. I mean I guess, you could like talk to him randomly somehow.. & see what he says. Like, if he sounds like he wants to talk to you & be friends with you,then go with it.. if hes kinda cold, then I wouldn't bother..
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go for it, but be explicit in what you want. i cant tell you how much i wish i was still friends with my ex. you really have nothing to lose in trying.
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Its alyways awkward to talk to an ex again but its better to have them as a friend than nothing at all. If you havent spoken to them in a while you could try askin them if they want to catch up over drinks or just give them a call. it might be awkward and uneasy at first but start of with simple conversation like "Hey how have you been, missed talkin to you i heard your engaged OMG! thats so awsome etc." The more you talk the easier it will get. i think its great you want to be friends again and i hope it all works out =] Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx P.S when your talking and the conversation starts to get slow and theres long silences try to bring up funny moments from the past about mutual friends of both of yours.
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