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what the hell?
so, around homecoming season at our high school, this girl that lives across the street from me started a bunch of stupid drama with me OVER A HOMECOMING DRESS. so she and her group of five or six girls hated me and my two best friends. about a month ago, they did a bunch of shit to my house [since of course they live just right there] i was out of town at the time. they harassed me and left me rude comments on myspace [yeah, really mature & all]. they are all mostly skanks, literally. so now one of my best friends mentioned above is becoming friends with the leader of the army of skanks and somewhat with another of the girls. it's rediculous and i can't believe it. i'm not anywhere near ready to forgive and forget. she acts like shes friends with them and is nice to them, but tells me she hates them [which i know is obviously a lie].
am i justified to feel this way? i fully believe i am.
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ahaa sorry, sounds like something from mean girls. "army of skanks" lol just had to add that :)
they are immature, and you shouldn't waste your time worrying about them. you are 100% justified to feel the way you are. keep the attitude you have now, cause it's totally believable to have. for the army of skanks - just leave it alone. eventually they'll realize what they're doing is really stupid, and if they don't.. well say something to them. for your friend, confront her. (if you haven't already) say what you said to us. "you say you hate them, but why do you act like they're your friends?" if she doesn't change her ways after that..well. are you sure you're best friends then? hope i helped.
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You are justified in feeling this way. Once you are ready to move on with things you will be able to do so. For now, I would just do as you are, keeping your distance. If you trully can't trust that one close friend of yours if she's going around and being friends with this girl. I mean I understand that she might be over things but when it comes down to it, "the leader of skanks" might be using your friend if intentional or not. Just take it in stride, because there will always be someone to start drama no matter at what stage you are at in life.
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Okay, well they have issues. They're jealous of you and they are just being immature...if you didn't do ANYTHING to them, print out all the crude comments they posted and report it to the PRINCIPLE seriuosly. It will get them in trouble. Tell them about all the stupid things they are doing to you over a stupid dress...who know they might even be suspended form homecoming. Hehe. But if you DID do something mean or something back to them, I say ignore them. Wear the dress you want and just completely forget about them. They're not worth your time and you should just move on. They'll soon enough realize what idiots they were being and get bored.
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