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Will we get back together?
Well about a month ago me and my boyfriend of 11 months broke up... and about two weeks later he had hooked up with this girl that he really didn't care too much about because she was a golddigger... she was always rude to him, wouldnt let him hang out with his friends, and whenever she was around her male friends he was shown to them as her friend and not her boyfriend.... anyhow, three nights ago, me and my ex was conversating and all the sudden I found me and him having sex. (Like I said, he didn't really care about this girl and therefore he knew it wasnt going to last... thats the only reason why he cheated on her...but he never cheated on me), anyhow, last night he spent the night and we had sex twice more... but he never did kiss me, he wanted me to perform oral sex the first night we slept together but I said no because we don't date, but last night he asked me again, and I was like are we ever going to go back out? And he was like probably so, cause I was like "Your not using me right...." and he was like no, I'd never do that to you...and I think he is being pretty honest cause he's never done anything to hurt me like that except for the breakup... my feelings are comming back for him but will this mean we'll get back together or what? I know he still cares but I dunno what to do... PLEASE HELP!
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Honestly you might not be able to trust him because what makes you think he wont cheat on you? I mean he did cheat on the other girl. Yes I know you say he doesnt care about her because shes a golddigger but what makes you think he still cares about you? I hate to say it but mabye hes just trying to get back at this "golddigger" so mabye he is useing you. I would try dont do anything more sexual until you find out whats really going on.Find out if hes still dateing that one girl and try to find out from mabye his friends if he ever talks about you, seems upset over what happened etc. hope i helped you
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I feel like he dumped you for this girl.
Men will tell you anything for sex, and sense your feelings are so strong you are taking it all in. I think you need to try something new like he is. If he didnt like her all that much he would have left her right?
If he is seeing that he can get away with cheating now, how do you know he wont or hasnt cheated on you? You know the saying "once one always one"
My opinion....Dont waste your time, he sure as hell didnt waste his. Its too many good guys out there for you.
And if you DO decide to wait on this guy and get back with this guy, Do me a favor and watch his step and yours.
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Well you guys broke up and that results in you guys not being able to solve a problem without breaking up. He's cheating on this girl right now no matter how much he dislikes her and that's a bad thing. And this girl can go in bitch mode if she finds out if her bf dumped her to get back with you although it seems like she doesn't care. So I guess tell him that you guys are gonna be hands off and just friends until he breaks up with this girl. When he does, tell him that you'll give one chance to make everything work out again. And when he does..well get back with him haha but if it fails the second time...jsut end it
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