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Bitchy Friend
Ok well my friend just got a new chocolate phone (green), and today at lunch she said- do you want to see my new phone, I said- I don't care about your fucking phone, she got mad at me. and I knew she just wanted to show it to me to rub it in my face. She knew I wanted one. She's that kind of a person. ok so now she's pissed off at me because of that, stupid I know. Ok do I appologize or what I would like to do is punch her in the face. (I will to) what should I do.
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A "friend" really doesn't act like that. If this is the first time it's happened, then talk to your friend. It may have been an accident, or maybe she was excited about her new phone and forgot.
If this happens often, then I am curious why you would still consider this person a friend, because friends don't act like that.
Oh, and getting mad and using foul language in situatuions like those just lets the instigator know that what they're doing is working.
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Okay, even if she was bragging, their is no reason in the world, to come off mean like that. You hurt her feelings. & if you got that chocolate phone, you'd deff. show her, & even maybe she wasn't trying to brag, just to show you what it looked like. & then you say that to her, its not nice. So, I'd deff. apologize to her.
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wow... she seems like a bitch.
deffinatly get revenge on her buy something she REALLY REALLY wants or likes rub it in her face and she needs a good slap! you should really think about slapping or punching her she deserves it.
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Oh yes, my favourite type of question.
I don't see a need to apologise. She needs someone to slap her out of conceitedness. I'll talk to her as per normal when she's a nice friend and all; but if she starts getting on my nerves with her bitchiness again, I'll just say "Mm. Ok." and continue to talk bout other stuff.
Or, I'll roll my eyes at her and talk to my other friends. Don't have to get mad at her. She'll only get happier cos you're showing your jealousy.
Or, you could be humourous bout it.
For eg, like when she waves the phone infront of you, take it away from her and say "hey great gift! thanks!". Just keep taking the phone away from her and pretending to keep it in your pocket if she keeps waving it or flashing it infront of you. It'll irritate the crap out of her. Guaranteed.
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Hah, what a familiar problem.
I'd just let yourself be aggrivated with her for a bit. I mean, if she KNEW you wanted that phone it's very possible she was showing off. Perhaps, for revenge get something she wants and rub it in her face? You know, Karma.
Although, I do not advocate violence of this sort, so I do not recommend punching her, even though I understand where the urge is coming in. Let her know she's being bitchy about this, maybe by telling her off. Other then that, I'd wait for an apology from her, she was wrong.
Good Luck<3
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Oh. My. Gosh. That is SO like this girl I know. She loves to show off and thinks she's SO cool (when people thinks she's idiotic). She's a pain in the butt.
So this friend of yours. I would LOVE to punch her in the face... but I don't think you should. I don't think I should either. Because, if you think about it, it's pretty dumb to get in a physical fight over showing off a phone. This friend of yours can get really hurt. Not that we care, right? But you could get in trouble for that.
What you do is ignore her whenever she shows off something. Or act like you could careless. Like if she goes, "Hey, look at my new skirt! Isn't cute?" Just look at it and say, in a bored tone, "I guess it's cute... but I like the one Stephanie or whoever has better," or maybe, "What cute skirt? Where is it?" Act like you don't like whatever she has without seeming too bitchy. It worked for my friend.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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