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Myspace Relationships
My boyfriend doesn't like that Im on Myspace because alot of people message me from all over and he doesnt want guys I used to talk to reconnecting with me through Myspace! Is he being reasonable or unreasonable?
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well i think that your boyfriend does have a reason 4 not wanting you on myspace...but you have to respect that.... juz look at it this way say you took his place and he took yours i mean how would you feel?.....the way you would feel maybe exactly the way he feels....
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okayy,this is being very unreasonable.Thats like saying he doesnt trust you.It sounds like hes a little unconfortable with him self to think that you will start reconnecting with other guys.
You need to tell him that its really not a big deal and that your with him for a reason.And just because you have a myspace and may be talking to guys doesnt mean anything.
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he's being unreasonable and over protective. being in a relationship with someone usually includes trust. he should trust you that you're not doing anything behind his back.
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I would say unresonable, if they're just your friends, then there shouldn't be a problem. Does he have a myspace? If so, I would confront him and ask him, who he's talking to and you don't think it's fair that he can talk to people, and you cannot. This isn't fair at all, I would talk to him about this and tell him how you feel about it.
Good Luck!
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This is so unreasonable. He's obviously really uncomfortable with himself because he thinks you would hook up with just any guy. He also doesn't sound very trusting. Try to tell him that you would never hook-up with some wierdo and wouldn't give your phone number out to any stranger. And so what if you reconnect with guys you used to know! Isn't that supposed to be a good thing? Seems to me that he's kind of insecure about the whole thing. Tell him that, and that if he doesn't stop then it's gonna have to end because every relationship needs trust.
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If he has Myspace himself, he is being COMPLETELY unreasonable and he needs to be slapped. You should also question your trust in him. If he is blaming you of that he could be doing it himself.
If he doesn't have Myspace, I think that he's somewhere in between. It's unreasonable for him to not want you to talk to people, but it's reasonable for him to be skeptical about the whole Myspace thing.
There's a few things you can do. Encourage him to use Myspace. He'll then see that it's not as bad as he has imagined it up to be and that it's okay and fun to reconnect with people. Just because you are reconnecting with others doesn't mean that you are disconnecting with each other.
Another thing you can do is give him your password. Only do this if you are completely comfortable with him having it. Remember that if you do, he would be able to make changes on your page, message people, and do a whole bunch of other things in your name without you ever knowing. If you trust him enough not to do this, giving him your password will not only show him that you trust him, but he will gain some trust in you. He can read whatever messages you send to people and he'll calm down about the whole thing.
Good luck!
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