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i have found out were my birthmother lives and everything .. what should i do .. i dont know what to doo what would be best she obviously didnt want me around in the first place.. but wat i can i do to meet her and my little brother i have never met.. i neeeeeeeeeeeeed hhhhhhheeeeeelllppppppppppp please :(
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Ok well is there any particular reason why you want to meet her other then the fact she gave birth to you?
This is totally your choice to make but from my point of view, why would you want to?
She's had absolutely nothing to do with you and what about your family that raised you? Just because their not blood related doesn't mean their not your family.
What do they think of this? Do they approve? Will they be hurt to think they've done everything for you and raised you but now your want to meet your mother?
But then again, as I said this is your choice to make. Do what you think is best for you. Just remember that she gave you up and whats to say she wants you now? Don't get hurt!!!
I wish you luck and hope things work out for the best! :)
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Just because she gave you up doesn't mean that she doesn't care about you. Many mothers give their children away because they can't take care of them. If she has a son that she is raising I think that this probably happened to her. She gave you up so that you could grow up with food and toys and all the other things she probably couldn't afford at the time. I'm sure she wonders about you all the time. Maybe she is worried that you hate her too. I think that you should write her a letter. Tell her about your life and how you are doing and that you would like to meet her. Good luck! :)
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YOU LUCKY ASS SON OF A BEETCH! I am adopted to, I have never me my mommy ether. I dont realy know what to tell you but if u really wanna see here then go for it! call her up or email her. i dont really care, i think my birthmom is a slutty whore who never cared about me, but that is my opinion. Dont listin to me listin to your heart (lol that sounds really gay)
hope it helped
nathan
ps i really am adopted and i said that that was my opinion and therefor you cannot make me change how horrible i think that is. i do think my mom is a slut becuase she had sex with my dad when she was 19, at 18 she had sex with ANOTHER man, creating my older sister. we are 11 months apart. either mym mom is a slut or she moves fast.
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