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backstab?
so my boyfriend and i broke up and it was just a week and my 'best' friend now likes him, should i forgive her or just ignore her?
because she like's my ex - isn't that considered backstab?
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no way.
you can't just ignore her because she likes someone, even if he is your ex boyfriend. You guys broke up, he's single you're single, meaning your entilited to do what ever you want and you can choose to do it with.
backstab is actually doing something behind your back, not having an innocent little crush.
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I did this once to a friend; however I asked her permission before he and I dated. Even though she said it was 'okay' she was not happy of it, but afraid to tell me how she felt.
Your friend just has a crush.
At times, they seem more important then
a friend. A week is a little quick, so in ways
yes it could be considered backstabbing.
I would talk to her, if you're hurt tell her.
My friend no longer talks to me because
even though she gave me permission to date him
it hurt her considerably, so I would not recommened you giving her false approvals.
So don't forgive her right away, talk to her.
If you're willing, forgive her then.
Good Luck :)
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Unless she's acted upon her feelings and has tried making moves on him or is going out with him, then I really wouldn't consider it backstab.
People can't control who they develop feelings for. I'm sure she doesn't want it to be him, knowing what happened between you two, but she just can't help it.
Since she's your best friend, I'm sure she's gonna try and get over it and not act upon anything, so you have nothing to worry about.
If you're stil worried though, just talk to her about it and let eachother know how you feel and what you think of the whole situation and everything. :]
I hope I helped.
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