my ex girl is still givin me signs that she wants and loves me still but she has a boyfriend and i have given her enough time so i think its time to repair our relationship and get her back but i dont kno how especially becuz she has a boyfriend(who i believe is jus to get me jealous). what do i do to get her back now?
guyinOK answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 3:09 am: Why would you want her back? She is acting as though she still likes you because it is always nice to have a back up. Incase the one she is with doesnt work out. Wont she do the same to you? And when a girl flirts to another boy infront of you. thats just to make your jealous. When a girl is dating another boy and flirting with you. Thats her trying to make him jealous. find another girl. [ guyinOK's advice column | Ask guyinOK A Question ]
MelLeDisko answered Tuesday November 7 2006, 11:19 pm: The most you can do is to just talk to her about the situation privately.
I would really make sure she's sending you these signs that she wants to be back with you, and that she really does love you and everything. Once you're sure, I would just ask her if you can talk to her and let her know of your feelings.
Just be like,"___, I got something to tell you. I still like you alot and I want to repair our relationship. I know it's the wrong time to say this because you have a boyfriend and everything, but I don't know if you're really with this guy, or if he's just some ploy to make me jealous because I get signals from you that you still like me and miss me too. Now if you really don't like me anymore and you're with this guy for real, then I'm sorry for brining it up and I hope it doesn't make things between us awkward, but if you do, I really would like you to consider giving us another shot and repairing our relationship so we won't make the same mistakes as last time and break up again." ( Or something like that ).
Just let her know what you're really feeling and that you really want to repair the relationship between the two of you, and then just let her think about it and give her all the time she needs. Just don't make her feel pressured to give you an answer right that second.
VainTaraLynn answered Sunday November 5 2006, 11:28 pm: Well, you need to tell her straight up how you feel. Say, "It's been *insert time frame here* since we broke up and I want to fix this and get back together. Youve been sending me mixed signals for a while and Im not sure how i'm supposed to take them. I know you have a boyfriend but if you want to be with me then I'd appreciate it if you tell me and not play games with me, cause its hurting me." Just make sure you let her know that you still want it, and you want her to make a decision so you know if you're supposed to stick with her or more on. Just say you dont want to deal with any games and ask for her to tell you the straight up truth. Him, or you. Tell her to follow her heart, and youll understand either way, but she should be with the person that her heart leads her to, whether or not its you. Make sure she knows whichever decision she makes you will support because you dont want her to lie to you just so you dont get hurt. [ VainTaraLynn's advice column | Ask VainTaraLynn A Question ]
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