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at homecoming i danced. unfortunatly i danced like a complete slut. at least i felt like i did... i am not a slut though. i was just freaking with my date and we were doing it front to back, and we would sometimes get low. then we danced front to front, and we would 'get low' again. i am so ashamed!!!!!!
p.s. we werent kissing or anything.
would peoples impression of me lower? i am known to be the good girl and be all proper and reserved. i guess i was having to much fun out there. =(
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Something no one else mentioned is that in the crowd you probably blended in just fine. People seem to be doing grinding more and more nowadays. "Dirty dancing" is getting really popular. I don't think people would think less of you because hell, they were probably doing it themselves too! Nah man, it's just dancing anyways.
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Only unreasonable people would think ur a slut. I freak and grind all the time and thats not the reason some people think im a slut. Some weirdos who dont have any fun at all their jealous and weirded out but hey, thats their problem. Theres never a such thing as too much fun so go on!
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dont worry about it! seriously!
at my homecoming basically everyone grinded, its not a big deal
my friends say that im a 'viscious grinder' but no one thinks of me as a slut
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Don't feel ashamed. I am sure a lot of other people were dancing like that too! People might actually just be like wow she's breakigng out of her shell. They won't think you are a slut or have loswer expectations of you if you weer a "good girl before." I wouldn't worry about it!
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I don't think they'll have a lower impression of you. Since you're known as the "good girl", this could actually benefit for you. This is showing people you can, every once and awhile, get crazy and dance around and have alot of fun out there. If anybody calls you a "slut", they have for one no clue what they're talking about, and are probably just jealous that you were having the time of your life out there and dancing with a guy. Nobody should be ashamed for having fun!
I hope I helped.
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If everyone thought that you were a "good girl" and "all proper and reserved", they most likely do see you in a different way now. But this might not be bad. Maybe they see you as someone who can have fun 2! And you shouldn't be ashamed of yourself! You were just having fun. But you will always have those "haters" who may call you a slut. Don't worry about them though. Giving in to them would be worse than being called a slut.
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