I'm not sure what should I do so I come to you guys. I'm going to take a poll so I have a better way to do it or not.
My sister just began to drive (she's 17) and she broke a law. For the first 6 months, she shouldn't have anyone in the car except herself and a sibling (that's me). She took some people to Dairy Queen (less than a mile far...you could walk there) from school. She does colorguard and thought it won't hurt. She didn't just break my mom's law, she broke the actual law.
Should I:
A. Let her go and if she breaks a law again and gets caught, it's her fault.
B. Tell my mom that she did it and she might get her keys tooken away, but maybe she'll think again...maybe.
If you have any more things I could do, do tell. And why should I do it?
XkittyOkatX answered Friday October 13 2006, 5:03 pm: well, if I were in the situation, I'd reccomend just telling her that was wrong, adn warning her she could get in trouble. If she does it anymore, tell someone, not to fight with her or anything, be to help her to be safe, and to protect others. [ XkittyOkatX's advice column | Ask XkittyOkatX A Question ]
Erronius answered Friday October 13 2006, 11:56 am: A without a doubt.
First it isn't your job to police her, or anyone but yourself really. Sure you could narc her out but that might very well create animosity later. And someday she'll be in a position to narc you out for something possibly.
This is a really, really minor infraction. If she makes a habit of it, then its possible she'll get caught on her own.
DiNOxTHUNDER answered Thursday October 12 2006, 11:24 pm: try talking to your sister, and even though it may be a dorky moment, tell her that you think shes making a bad choice when doing what she did. but if she chooses not to listen again, tell your mom,and ask her what to do or to talk to her. good luck. =] [ DiNOxTHUNDER's advice column | Ask DiNOxTHUNDER A Question ]
ADViCELOLA answered Thursday October 12 2006, 9:55 pm: Well I would choose A. It`s not good to rat your sister out, i know how that feels, but i do understand where you`re coming from. Just tell your sister, that it`s not right, and she can get in big trouble for it, and if she doensn`t listen, then tell your mom. [ ADViCELOLA's advice column | Ask ADViCELOLA A Question ]
xxbarbielove answered Thursday October 12 2006, 9:18 pm: B. Wouldnt you rather have your sister get her keys taken away and be abl to drive you places when needed soon like week after or, she could get her license suspended and not drive for months. [ xxbarbielove's advice column | Ask xxbarbielove A Question ]
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