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i sorta need some help. im young ok?
OK.im a 14 year old female, I have herd that after you have sex you bleed. well, how long do you bleed? and if you do start bleeding do you just ignore it and keep going or stop? if you do it with out a condom will i get pregant? I am sorry i don't know this stuff... my mom is strict and my boyfriend is probably going to be ready soon. I am right now but im not so sure about it.
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Whoa, slow down. You don't know anything about sex so how can you be ready? I was fourteen when I lost my virginity, but luckily for me I could spell, know how to use correct grammar, and most importantly I knew the consequenceses of sex. Which apparentely, you don't. Some people do bleed after sex and others don't. If you are well lubricated and relaxed you shouldn't bleed. You might be a little sore, but hopefully the pain shouldn't be to serious. You usually only bleed for a few seconds and others who ask this question misinterpret the concept ALL THE TIME. You don't actually bleed like you are on your period. If you do, then somthing is deffinately not right. If you do bleed, which some small, very tight and usually nervous girls do, then it should only be a few drops of blood. 2 or 3 at most. Nothing like a period at all. You most likely won't notice the blood until after you are finished, in which case you should probably excuse yourself and go to the bathroom. If you have sex without a condom, you'll be lucky not to get pregnant. It's not safe at all, and if you are going to have sex, i'm begging you to use a condom. Yes, begging. There are to many pregnant teenagers in the world, and if you use a condom, you could be one less. So if you have sex, just use one. It's not that big of a deal, and it can make a HUGE difference. Ok? Something about your question bothered me. You said, "I am ready now but im not so sure about it." If you are ready you shouldn't be 'not so sure'. You should be absolutely positive that this is what you want to do. So before you decide to engage in such a serious act, take caution and be careful. Think about what a big step you are taking.
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1st off be SURE [[and i mean realllly sure]] if you wanna have sex or not. sex is a decision you should make for yourself, not your b/f.
i suggest you USE A CONDOM. every time you have sex, whether it being your first or 5th.
and you dont bleed alot [[if your cherry pops]] but most people do bleed on their first time
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if you have to get on a website like this to get the answer to those questions, you are not ready at all to be having sex. otherwise you are going end up getting pregant or something and just be like oops i didn't know.
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hey there is nothing wrong with asking questions. you should definately wait until you are 100% ready..even if your bf is ready first. If he really cares about you..he will WANT you to be totally ready before having sex.
to answer your questions:
-yes you bleed. some do not. if you use tampons you might not bleed as much because it stretches out your hymen a little. it depends on how long you will bleed for. the safe thing to do is put a pad on if it seems like it isnt stopping. ive heard that girls bleed again (like 3 days after losing their virginity) when they have sex again. so the safest thing is to keep pads or something handy. you probably wont have to stop. you probably wont see the blood or anything until its over and he takes his penis out. you will probably see a little trickle of blood on the condom and if you wipe yourself you will probably see quite a bit of blood. dont panic..its fine..just put a pad on sweetheart.
if you do it without a condom..yes you could get pregnant! i have heard of girls who have done it without a condom and did not get pregnant..but that is taking a huge gamble. be safe everytime.
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ok. first things first.yes,unfortunately you do bleed if your cherry pops [hymen breaks] which most people's do when they first have sex. you dont bleed for long, and honestly, most of the time it does hurt. whether or not to keep going is your choice, depending on how much it hurts, and what pleasures you. there is always a chance of getting pregnant whether you use a condom or not. so i recommend that if you do, USE A CONDOM!! and since your mom is strict, its up to you whether to talk to her about birth control. but you could always go to a program such as planned parenthood. good luck, and make sure youre ready and no all the facts..=]
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Its normal for girls to start bleeding,alot of girls dont bleed till afterwards.But its whatever you feel comfortable with.And please use a condom beacuse it will be very very big possiblity of pregnancy.O and the readyness thing,you have to really think this through.Me and my g/f did and her mom is strict and found out about it and now we cant see each other.So be carefull and be smart about it but above all PRACTICE SAFE SEX cus you may be ready to have sex but not to raise a child.
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Not everyone bleeds the first time you have sex. When people mention "popping a cherry" it is a term for tearing the hymen which is a tissue between the vagina and close to the cervix. Some people never get torn and some people tear it while inserting a tampon. You will learn more about it during high school. You have a very high chance on getting pregnant without a condom and if you use a condom correctly (which most teens dont) it is only 80-89% effective. You shaould open it carefully and what not. If you are not so sure than don'tdo it. You want to be ready and sure. You can have many boyfriends but you can only give your virginity once. Hope I helped
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