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2 girls but only 1 boy...
15/f
i have a friend but she's not close and we both like the same guy but she nor do my/her friends know that i do.
but me and this guy let's call him G well we know eachother and he's always messing with me he's put his arm around me and is a total gentelmen with me.
But he doesn't even know her that well and her/my friends are trying to hook them up.
what should i do?
ALSO i have a feeling he might ask me out and if he does should i say yes even though my "friend" likes him?
Help please!
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The guy "G" might just like you better than the other girl. While I don't ever advocate stealing a friend's boyfriend. I think this situation is different. He doesn't know her well...and apparently if he has not asked her out yet his feelings for her are not what others percieve them to be. In this case, I think you should say "yes". He sounds like a nice guy. Go for it!
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I would tell your friends that you have had feelings for this guy for awhile now. And as for going for him, I think you should. I mean if she was a best friend that'd be a whole nother situation, but if you two aren't really that close of friends, I say you should go for him if he's going to make you happy. And hopefully, by telling your/her friends and her that you like him, her/your friends won't be trying to hook them two up anymore. And believe me, if they don't know eachother that well, I don't think he's going to want to try and get with a stranger. I totally would say yes if he asks you out, but if you really want to keep the friendship with this girl, just think of whats more important to you. Him, or her. I hope I helped.
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Tell your friends that you've liked tis guy for a while and that you're feeling jealous because they are trying to set the other girl and your crush up...and then say YES when he does ask you out and if he doesnt ask you out, you ask himout
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You should tell your friend that you like him. When it comes to him asking you out, you may need to choose the relationship you value the most and that you think that most potential. Is it worth messing up your friendship with the girl over a guy? Or do you value the relationship with the guy enough to possibly no longer be friends with her.
I say as long as you are happy that is what matters and other people shouldn't influence you.
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tell her you like him too. but if he does ask you out you shouldn't say no because of your friend. you should say yes and enjoy yourself
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