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i dont kno him


Question Posted Sunday September 17 2006, 8:04 am

ok so as all stories start out, there's this guy, and well he's really cute and he went to my middle school but we didnt have any classes together and now we are freshman in high skewl and i still dont have any classes with him but we do have lunch together. i really want to talk to him or atleast get him to see me. i know a kid who is kinda friends with him and might have his screen name abut i dont want to be like stalkerish, so i was thinking maybe sumtime during lunch i wud go up to him or maybe if i see him in the halls and be like "hey, did u got to landings? (the name of our middle school...) and he's gonna say yes and then im thinking of saying like cool me 2 by the way im anna" but i dont really kno if thats good and i dont want to look like an idiot. any suggestions?

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ductape_n_roses answered Sunday September 17 2006, 7:38 pm:
Don't over think it my dear. Just go up to him, say "Hey, what's up?" or something like that. Engage him in a conversation something like "You went to ladings, right?" ...blah blah... "Isn't high school better..like woah?" or osmething like that.

The key is, be yourself. Don't try to mold into a person he wants you to be or anyone for that matter. Before lunch is over, ask him for his sn so you guys can continue on with a conversation..just say "Hey, what's your screen name?" blah blah. And no, you do not have to introduce yourself unless he asks...

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ShaunyD answered Sunday September 17 2006, 6:24 pm:
Small talk and being confident would be a good place to start. Hes not gona think your an idiot if you just be yourself, and if he does thats his problem and hes not worth your time.

A good starting point might be something like "hey remember me from middle school", if you word it right I don't see him worrying to much about you not noticing him. Like I said, just be yourself and don't be scared hes just another person who might well want to come up and talk to you and be just as nervous. You dont know until you ask! Good luck.

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karisue answered Sunday September 17 2006, 3:54 pm:
honestly, i dont think you should ask him if he went to your school, because if he did, then he's seen you there before & is probably going to wonder how come you never noticed him either. i think you should just be brave & talk to the guy. hes not going to think you're an idiot if you just go up to him & make small talk. it would be okay, just be confident. =)

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