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There's this boy that I am on and off with. I mean I really like him but I have a tendency to find the tiny bad things in people and trip over it completely and normally that's why I have dumped him a lot. I don't know if I should give him a longer chance and stick with him or move on... But I do really like him and I always will and I know that I get jealous when girls flirt with him. What should I do?
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Dear ??? i have had this problem a lot with girls.... it happens alot and i think that you should really find out if he likes you. And try to give him another chance but if bad stuff keeps happening dump him... thats harsh but there is plenty of fish in the sea.... it took me a long time to get over my most recent breakup but you will get over it and you guys will find someone else.
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austin/aussiman37
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Greetings! I am an 18/m, and let me tell you something, no guy is perfect, I have a friend like you that finds the tiniest things wrong with her men haha, but you must not concentrate on that! As for the question of whether or not to stay with him, I don't know, I've never met him, but what I can tell you is some questions that might help you in your decision...
Has he been good to me?
Is he sweet?
Do I think he cares for me?
What is the evidence that he cares?
Does he remember key events in our relationship?
ask questions to yourself like that to aid you in your decision...relationships are magical things indeed...as for your issue of jealousy, don't get jealous my dear, if he is true to you, than that is all that matters...
I wish you the best!
-JT
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Just a guess, but maybe you're like me and afraid to commit. Like you have things to be done of your own interest and aren't ready to worry about someone else as deeply. I used to find things in people that would be total turn-offs, but they probably don't have more quirks than anyone of us. It's just that if we always focused on such small things we'd be missing the big picture and when you miss that: it's gone and it's not always something you could redeem.
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When couples are on and off, that shows that there is a problem in the relationship. Maybe you don 't like him as much as you think you do. You're sometimes going to get jealous if a girl is flirting with your ex-bf even if you don't have feelings for him anymore. That's just the way it is most of the time. Give this guy one more chance. If you truely like him you, chances are you won't find anything wrong with him. And if it doesn't work out with you two, then it wasn't meant to be. Hope everything works out.
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If you really do like him, and always will, and if you get jealous when girls flirt with him, you should definitely give it a longer chance.
Don't concentrate on the bad things, however hard that will be, and just remember the good things about him, like what made you like him so much in the first place.
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