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Why don't they find me attractive? And why don't they like m
I'm a girl and I'm 13 if that helps.....
Well see my friend always has boyfriends and her boyfriends are usually gorgeus! I just turned 13 and I had one boyfriend and he just wasn't the person I wanted to date. Other than him I haven't had any other boyfriends. Me and my friends all went to a new school (including the guys from my old school) this year and so this year I'm acting different, more mature. But the guys just don't seem to notice. I try to wear cute clothes and I'm always nice to them and I don't put on a lot of make up because I really don't need to. But I just don't know what to do! My friend isn't super-model pretty or anything she's just "so-so". I'm not overweight or anything and I have a nice tan and well I just don't know why guys don't like me? PLEASE HELP!
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i know this really doesn't help but you shouldn't just want a boyfriend becuase your friend has one (or has had many). you shouldn't be doing all of this stuff to try to impress them, you should be doing it for you. it's not like your boyfriend is what would make you...well you. if you find a guy you do really like then just be yourself. but seriously, don't just do it becuase your friend has one.
p.s. your probably going to rate me low becuase that's not what you wanted to hear. but it's true okay. i really was trying to help.
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Like all the other girls said, you might be trying too hard. I don't know how you act around them, but some girls whenever they try to dress all cute and flirt and everything it shows that they're trying to get the guy to like them and it turns them off. [ I'm not saying you ARE, it's just a possibility ].
Also, sometimes guys just like other girls, it happens. They might prefer blondes, green eyed people, funny people, serious people, smart girls, dumb girls, different guys like different types. And whenever they meet your friends, their personalities just might mesh together well and they find they're really attracted to your friend. She might make them laugh alot, or she just might be real comfortable to hang out with and talk to. [ And I'm not saying you're not ], but guys sometimes don't need all the cute outfits and makeup and nice tan and all teh flirting and attention and everything. Some girls just get guys to like them by treating them like a friend and letting the feelings develop later and not trying so hard to make them like them.
But.
You ARE only 13, guys are still sort of immature at 13, and you don't NEED a boyfriend at 13. I mean, you're only young once. So just hang out with friends, have fun, and try and meet some other guys and just see if the right one comes along whose personality meshes best with yours. :]
I hope I helped.
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Your probally trying to hard.If you want them to like you play it cool.Dont just talk to every guy you like and try to be nice.Or a even better answer.Maybe the guys that like you just havent told you yet.You have to give them time and let them develop their feelings for you.
ta ta for now
~beebee69~
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hey there (=
well, everyone always asks "what does she have that i don't?" this seems like one of those siduations. ok first off don't think that, because then you will start to put yourself down. you don't need to change your clothes or anything to impress anyone sillyy! boys are a complicated thing. what i have learned is that if you try too hard then it won't work. last year i descided to give up for a while, and when i did and i was myself around everyone and treated everyone like friends, a bunch of guys started liking me. you don't need to wear the coolest clothes or anything to impress the guys. they don't look at clothes anyways really haha. just let your personality shine and mellow out a little bit and everythign will be fine. you are 13, you don't need a boy to make you happy.
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guys your age are just immature sometimes. also, your only 13. YOU HAVE SOME TIME! dont take it seriously. it doesnt even count that they dated if it was for like 3 days or something. also, it might be because she is fast or wears a lot of makeup or is flirty. but if they dont notice, thye arent worth it. YOU HAVE TIME! remember. dont ruin your rep. for a guy.
love
micki
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