I am so confused. I liked this guy (let's callhim Joey) since 6th grade. After he turned me down for a school dance in 7th grade, I just accepted him as my guy friend and believed that I was lucky to have him as a friend who'll always be there instead of a boyfriend that won't last. But now that he's in 3 of my classes and at the school orientation I talked to him, I think I'm starting to like him again!
I mean he's really sweet and fun to be with. And he slightly likes me (so I think) because he kept on trying to strike up conversations and stared at me during the classroom visits. (We're going into hihg school now). Ahhh I'm just confused about him.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Work & School category? Maybe give some free advice about: School? MelLeDisko answered Thursday August 31 2006, 7:47 pm: Well, seventh grade WAS along time ago, so it could be that his feelings could be changing. Just start talking to him more and become his friend. And just make him laugh, flirt a little maybe, and just hang out. Then if you feel things are getting good between you two, take a shot. You took one before. And if he doesn't feel the same, just move on. I know it might be a little difficult since you like this guy, but just start trying to talk to other guys to and seeing if you have anything in common with them. You can't spend forever waiting for a guy to 'possibly' change his feelings for you. And even so, you guys can always remain really good friends. Better to have him as a friend then nothing at all, right? But if he does, that's great! I hope I helped. <3 [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
sunnyville answered Thursday August 31 2006, 1:13 pm: It's possible that his feelings have changed or are changing,could develop into something more than friends but get into illusions yet you got to make sure it's what you think I don't want to see your heart broken again,if you find out he doesn't move on,meet other guys who interest you,you shouldn't spent too much time if you don't want your feelings to grow towards him,just get the doubts out,get things clearly,and hopefully he feels the same way you do. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
Volleyball2150 answered Thursday August 31 2006, 12:59 pm: If you think he likes you, talk to him! If you are entering high school right now... 7th grade wasn't that long ago. But i'm sure he had a good reason to turn you down for the dance. Talk to him as a friend. Hang out with him as a friend. Then he'll grow into liking you. I say that he likes you but he was probably embarressed to go to the 7th grade dance with you. So just talk to him and see what's up.
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