I'm so confused about masturbation. Is it right or wrong? I keep getting these urges and I'm scared to masturbate because I'm afraid it's wrong for me to do because I'm afraid my mom might get mad and tell me not to, but I can't control my hormones! I can't even sleep because of my hormones. What should I do?
CHRIStotheTINAA answered Wednesday August 30 2006, 9:29 pm: Masturbation is completely normal & healthy. Don't worry about it .. there's nothing wrong with it at all. As far as your mom getting mad, just do it in private and don't let her know. It could be embarassing if she found out. But almost everyone does it and there's nothing wrong with it. :] [ CHRIStotheTINAA's advice column | Ask CHRIStotheTINAA A Question ]
Tulipg17 answered Wednesday August 30 2006, 7:56 am: It's totally fine and normal, and let me let you in on a little secret- everybody does it sometimes. Even adults, boys, girls, everyone! If someone acts like they "would never" and it's "so gross" or "wrong" they are just embarassed of the topic. Trust me, it would be weird if you DIDNT do it sometimes. [ Tulipg17's advice column | Ask Tulipg17 A Question ]
ilovecali answered Wednesday August 30 2006, 6:19 am: hey and i feel ya and masturbation is totally normal for your age just dont let your mom find out because that would be embarassing but guys love really horny girls..you can just masturbate in privacy and i dont kno how comfortable you feel with this but when i was 13 i got my first little vibrator you can buy them at spencers for like 10 bucks...best ten bucks i ever spent....or just find things that vibrate and hold then up to your clitoris and that will surely cure your sexual urges..you can do this when your mom is gone or when she is asleep etc...but masturbation is something she cant prevent you from doing because its a very natural thing
:) [ ilovecali's advice column | Ask ilovecali A Question ]
alisonmarie answered Wednesday August 30 2006, 5:43 am: Masturbation is normal and healthy. There is nothing wrong with it.
It is a good way to explore your likes and dislikes, as well as to use your pent-up sexual energy.
twistedteen25 answered Wednesday August 30 2006, 3:14 am: It depends on you. Many people masturbate, it's like the 'how to control your hormones in the Newe Age' kind of thing. First of all, your mom doesn't have to know. Second of all, you can't control your hormones, no matter what you do. I don't understand how you can't sleep though. Is it because the thought you masturbated bothers you? [ twistedteen25's advice column | Ask twistedteen25 A Question ]
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