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first let me give you some background information..
i have this friend (lets call him..steve). we were really good friends last year. we were going out for like 2 days but thats a whole other story. he was almost like a brother to me and we were really close. i still like him sorta but hes being really mean to me and my friend (lets call her..suzie). since we hadnt seen steve all summer me and suzie went to 3 of his football practices so we could talk to him. well that didnt work out cuz he never even glanced at us when we yelled his name (this was after practice was over). we decided to give up after the third practice. then we saw him at the street fair and were kinda following him for a little to see if he noticed we were there and we thought he would come talk to us. nope. so a couple weeks later he gets online. heres the convorsation..
ME-hey
Steve-hey
me-did you see me and suzie at your football practices?
steve-oh yeah
me-why didnt you come talk to us?
steve-i didnt want to
me-oh thanks
me-anyway..are you in the gifted classes this year?
him- i dont know
me-how can you not know?
him-i dont really care
him-i dont know how to say this but cant you and suzie leave me alone?
steve signs off
i was so sad when that happened i didnt know what to do. i told suzie the story and she was like "what a deusch bag!" we thought well what if he means leave him alone forever?? like hes too good for us now that hes on the football team. im hoping thats not what he meant. school starts tomorrow and me and suzie decided to give him some space for a few days. im really sad about the whole situation cuz i still like him and last year we were really close and i could trust him with stuff. im thinking maybe its time to move on..i mean not like him like him anymore. but now im thinking hes not a very good friend anymore. looking back, we prolly couldve given him more space then we did last year. im not really sure what to think of the whole situation.
what do you guys think? what should me and suzie do??
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well i dont think there is alot you can do i would wait a few months and then send him an enail saying well i have left you alone now can you please tell me why it isnt fair that you do this to me we were such good friends what happened please explain it.if you cant wait a month atlest wait 2 weeks you need to give him time to see what he has done maybe he will come crawling back.you and susie just go live your lives dont wait for him if he wnats to com back he will.soon you wll meet another guy a nicer guy one that wont ditch you right away .i know you probably donbt want hear that so i wont but i am sure it will work out ok just give it time ok?
~nikki~
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well I would make him feel bad for he did.i mean how can he not be your friend anymore and he doesnt even have a reason.I make my friends feel sorry for what they did bad all the time.And this is how i do it.
1.If you happen to croos paths and he looks at you glance at him or even glare
2.if he tries to talk to you look at him so he knows you heard but walk away like you dont care.
3.have one of your friends go up to him and tell your friend to say `you know(your name)is mad at you.she said you think your to good for her since your on the football team`
That should get him to feel bad.If not why not just ask himwhat you did to make him ignore you.
Ta Ta for now =)
~beebee69~
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well i think if he told you to leave him alone than i think you should. maybe he's just made new friends and just dosent want to be friends with you anymore. i'm not sayin you did anything but if i were you i would try to think back and think if you did anything to piss him off alot.
hope i helped
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Sounds to me like you and Suzie embarassed him. His team probably picked on him or something for you two randomly showing up. I could be wrong, but in any case, I wouldn't look too much into the situation. Girls tend to overthink things when guys don't think things through much at all. There's no meaning behind any of what was said or done. I know that's hard to imagine, but it's true. Just try to relax and stop thinking about it. If he wants you to leave him alone, just leave him alone for awhile. It's ok to say "hi" when you see him, but avoid conversations until he starts one himself. I definitely understand why you are so sad and confused though. When I read what he said to you at the end, it made ME sad. Boys can do that to you. Just try to brush it off. I hope that I helped you and good luck. :)
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