OK. So my girlfriend is a little younger than me and I am really hot...literally. I know that she loves me but when we kiss I have to ask her for a kiss. I am also the one that has to try to start the romance. I am only 14 but I am really attracted to her.. I am going into the 8th and she is going into the 6th. But what I am afraid of is when she starts school at the end of the month is that she is gonna find another boy.. See she has already broken up with me once. but had to have my sister tell me that it was over then about 1week later she came wanting me back. I took her back but I am not sure if I broke up with her and things didn't work out with a girl I like if she would take me back. I think that this girl that is my age and is only 1grade below me is straight out cute. her name is morgan and she is cute.. I know she likes me and I like her.. I know she likes me because we like to play basketball every sunday before church. also I was at my youth ministers last night and she was there. we were sitting right next to each other and playing all the games with each other. The only thing is I think my girlfriend was jealous because she was there and so was my sister.. What should I do.. Should I express my feelings to morgan and see what she thinks or should I just see what happens between me and my girlfriend? Please ADVICENATORS!!!!! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!
sunnyville answered Saturday August 12 2006, 11:55 am: See what happens between you,your girlfriend because she must like you a whole lot to want you back so soon,shows that she can't be without you.But if you express your feelings to Morgan you'll hurt her because you have a girlfriend already,she doesn't deserve that,and do the right thing.If it doesn't work out with your girlfriend break up with her, and then you could express your feelings to her. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
Lola answered Saturday August 12 2006, 7:40 am: Hey,
Okay, i will give you my true opinion, and tell you the right thing that should be done, and that wouldn't hurt anyone's feelings.
First of all, i know that your girlfriend is young and all, but i always believed that age difference is not a problem as long as their is love. But since she is too young, don't expect her to be an experienced kisser or a romantic person or anything. I mean.. its probably the first or second time that she has dated. so this whole dating thing is new to her. But in the same time, so you wouldn't just suddenly break up with her and go for that other girl, try to stick around for awhile, and maybe things would get much better or your relationship would advance to another level. Just give her sometime, and if things don't work out and if you are not comfortable alone anymore, just tell her that, tell her that things haven't been working out, and that you have been giving her all that love and kissing and stuff, and she hasn't been giving you anything at all. And just simply let go and take a step back.
Then don't just go date morgan at exactly the same day, wait for awhile so you wouldn't hurt your girlfriend if she knew that you broke up with her to be with morgan, and she'd know that she was right when she felt jealous.
So give it sometime, then go for morgan.
But during all that time , you can still hang out with morgan and play basket ball and games and all, but you don't have to make it too obvious infront of your girlfriend.
And i am making you wait and give this whole situation some time,because sometimes relationships take a while till they advance to another level, thats why you have to wait, because maybe your girlfriend would come around and you would find her kissing you and french kissing and stuff. Although, i doubt that, but you have to give her a chance.
And also so that you wouldn't hurt anyone's feelings or break her heart or anything, and when you do break up with her, don't tell her that its because of morgan,because if you do, then you would totally break her heart, so let her find out on her own.
Goodluck:) and if you need any other help or advice, please be free to contact me. [ Lola's advice column | Ask Lola A Question ]
caramella answered Saturday August 12 2006, 6:59 am: Well,your girlfreind is hell to young for you,i know age doesnt matter but shes in the 6th grade.You cant expect her to start by kissing you or her to start off by doing the romantic stuff,shes too young to understand theses things!Now,i would ususally encourage a breakup,but in your case,i think you should go for morgan.Even if you work things out with your girlfreind,she still wont be able to start anything romantic,shes too young.Going through a breakup shouldnt be too hard for her,she wont even feel depressed for a long time about this.But first you got to know if morgan feels the same about YOU.And i also think you should take your sisters opinion on what to do. [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
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