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going behind my back.
If I don't like a person for a good reason, usually my best friend doesn't either. (I'm not saying she has too, she just .. doesn't like them) She'll say bad stuff about them, totally hate them, and be completley rude to them. Then when I hate them the most, she'll go off and be friend with them and tell them she lied about not liking them for my sake.
It really sucks cause then those people hate me more, my best friend sucks up to them, and I'm left alone! What should I do?
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Your friend is fake, to her and to you. I personally hate that but I think you should give her the benefit of the doubt in that maybe she really did just want to make you feel better when she was agreeing with you. Tell her that you would never force her to choose who to be friends with and she doesn't have to be dishonest to spare your feelings. Tell her that when you vent about this girl, she doesn't have to agree, just listen. That's what friends are for.
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Try not to make friends with backstabbers & keep to yourself.
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As long as you're in school, there's always going to be drama. It's great to have an opinion, but I believe you should keep it to yourself unless you're asked about it. It'll make things a lot easier on you. [:
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Stop talking nasty about people you don't like to this friend. Better yet, try not to talk nasty at all.
Then she has nothing to work with, no reason to suck up, and you'll be a better person for it.
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