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dreams about a semi-friend
i've been having dreams about this boy. he's not a stranger to me, but he's not a good friend either. the last time i saw him was sunday, july 30th at a party. i would say that i'm attractive to him, but not in a crush kind of way. that night, i had a dream about him. it was about me and him kissing in my room. i thought that i dreamt that because i love seeing him and that, like i said, am attractive to him. then, two days after that, august 1st, i had another dream about him. this was about us seeing each other in a store, i hugged him, he asked me out, then i gave him a peck in the cheek. it was more detailed, but i don't really wanna make it too detailed. i told my good friend about this, and she thought that it was weird that i was having dreams about him and that maybe i'm starting to like him. well, since sunday, i've been paying attention to most things that makes me think of him. i think the hug from sunday gave me this feeling. before i left the party, we hugged. it felt really good, and i wanted to keep holding on to him. since then, all this has been happening. i still don't think i have a crush on him, but it seems like i do. i think maybe it's just beginning? he's really cute, with dimples to die for! he's funny, and he's pretty smart. everything i would want. i don't know if i'm starting to like him, but if i am, i don't wanna get too attached, because i don't think i'm his "type", although i'm not so sure. but it just doesn't seem like something he would do - ask me out.
i was wondering what you think about it? what should i do and stuff?
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Talk to him. Get to know him better. See if you REALLY DO like him! :) Then if you do, say something! See if he feels the same way. Obviously if you get to know him better you'll know whether you're his type or not, so go for it!
Hope this helps! ♥
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Alot of people believe dreams have deeper meanings. Im one of thsoe people. I have a dream book and it says that the person you kiss means more to you then you know in reality. basically you like him. If you dont think hes the type to ask you out..wait it out and maybe instead of asking him out ask to hang out one day.. If you hang out with him one on one it will help you determine how you feel and where you want this relationship to go :)
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Sometimes dreams mean things and sometimes they don't. In your case, these dreams are making you like him. Your mind is forming pictures of unreal events. Maybe the guy you see in your dreams isn't what he is in real life at all.
Its hard to stop liking a guy once you've started, but in time I promise you you'll realize that he's just a dream. If you REALLY don't want to get attached to him, then I suggest avoiding him. The more you see him the more unreal dreams you'll have!
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Well I have a friend (let's call him John) He's really funny and awesome and has a great personality with the best hair flip =P I sorta liked him but sorta didn't in a boyfriendish way. I had a dream of him and me kissing and then I began to have doubts about my feelings for him. That was a long time ago and I found out that I only liked him as a friend. Maybe you need to just wait a little bit more and see if you liking him is directed toward the boyfriend way or the best buddy kind of way. Later on if you find out that you like him as a boyfriend, start flirting but don't get attached. If he doesnt ask you out, YOU ask him out. The reason I tell you not to get attatched is because if you do, two things will happend. 1)You guys may just remain friends and 2)The break up will hurt (since there's no guarentee that you guys will be hearing the same wedding bells). If you like him as a friend, get to know him better, be his friend. He seems like a really nice guy =] Hope everything works out
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