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love sucks ... alot
ive been "together" with this kid juan for over a year & a half now and he had a girlfriend a month or so before we started being "together" and recently he went to the dominican republic and i started hanging out with this kid jose, and i started to catch feelings for him really really quick, and now juan told me he broke up with delisia so me and him can be together. but jose asked me out like 4 days ago and i told him i dont know because of the hole me & juan situation, and jose got really upset. an i just dont know what to do.. its like a love triangle. ive tried to ask my friends about it and their like i dont know what to tell you & blahblahblah. and im like so depressed & confused. last night when jose was driving me home we were talking about it and he was like no matter what you do im going to be here for you, you know i really do care about you alot and i dont want to interfear with you 2. but its up to you & he gave me a kiss on the forhead & wouldnt stop hugging me. and i dont know, juans the total opposite way. he only acts like that when were alone & like latly we`ve been fighting over the computer about i dont even know what for no reason at all and im ready to just give up with everything & just say forget them both cause its really hurting me and i cant play either one of them cause thats not who i am and i dont want to hurt either one of them .... can someone PlEASE HElP ME ?! =[
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Well, it seems like Juan isn't ready to show you off in front of the guys yet. But he did break up with his girlfriend to be with you. Still it seems like he's not ready for a stable relationship. Jose on the other hand seems to be really into you saying he would wait for you and such. Why don't you suggest that you and Juan have a little time off each other and see other people for a while to see if you and Juan should be together or not. If he agrees, see if you and Josa have a better relationship...if Juan isn't too happy with the idea, break it off with him. Tell him that you're really sorry and you know that he broke up with his girlfriend for you, but that you think he's not really ready to go right back into dating again.
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