Well, i have a problem that not even my friends can help me with without everyone thinkin im sorta slutty but here it is. ive liked these two guys for 3 years now, but the problem is their best friends.. i think one of them might like me and the other one im pretty sure does but i have no clue which one to lean towards more.. its probally hard for anyone to help but if you can please do
- confused
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Lola answered Tuesday August 8 2006, 4:42 am: I don't really think that you are slutty at all, because i have been in exactly the same situation, loving two guys and they are both the bestest of friends. I am not going to write you 2 pages of advice and probably say meaninless stuff that would just drive you to nothing. so i am going to tell you something, and if you understand its meaning, which i am sure you will, then you will be able to decide which one you love most and want to be with.
You may love two people so much ,and practically in the same way, but your heart only leads you to one.
orphans answered Monday August 7 2006, 10:59 pm: Whoa. This is really hard. Well all I can say is ... love will find its way. You really dont need to be deciding right NOW about which one you really like. But it`ll most definetely come to you later. Get to know both of them.
hotpotato answered Monday August 7 2006, 10:23 pm: That is a tricky situation. I would just ask them. Separately or together, I don't know-you have to decide for yourself. Asking them separately means you don't want to hurt their feelings but then you run the risk of people thinking you're slutty. If you don't do anything about it then you'll be left wondering what could have happened. The slutty thing is kind of something you don't have to obsess over. Your friends are the ones that are important. They know you and know the truth of whatever happens, I hope.
Well, are you friends with both of them? Spend more time with them. If one of them likes you, hopefully they will ask you out and you don't have to. They will probably discuss among themselves about this, if they do both like you and not fight over you. [ hotpotato's advice column | Ask hotpotato A Question ]
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