Okay I like this guy and we've been going out and like he really really likes me too and my parents dont like him for some reason and i dont want to break up with him and my friends dont want me to go out with him anymore and want me to break up with him to but I rele dont want to what should I do ?
thanks
- xoxo Vanessa
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DefinedEyes answered Wednesday August 2 2006, 1:42 pm: Well there has to be a reason.
Your parents & Friends probably know something about this guy that you dont.
Try asking your friends and parents for a reason, and if they say "I just dont like him" tell them thats not a reason,tell them thats like being racist, you may not know the preson but you just dont like them because of their skin color. Seriously, tell them they shoudl have a reason, because maybe they do?
CuticleSistas answered Wednesday August 2 2006, 1:37 pm: If you really like this guy and you think he really cares about you then you should keep it up!! Talk to your parents and friends and let them kno that you really like this guy!! Tell them how good he is to you and how much he cares! Also ask your parents and friends wut they dont like about him, maybe that will help a little!! All I'm saying is if hes good to you then you should stay together, he sounds like a good guy to me:)
sunnyville answered Wednesday August 2 2006, 1:36 pm: Stay with him it's your decision if you want to be with that person don't let others decide for what you'll do in your life they should support you with your relationship.If your friends keep telling you or your parents just ignore them you just be happy with your partner.Anyways ask yourself did they ever give you a good reason why they don't like him just think about it. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
deathwillcome answered Wednesday August 2 2006, 1:34 pm: this is a common problem, and a lot of people decide to take their family, or friend's side. But you should do what YOU want to do...it isn't their choice...it is your life...and your love...don't let them ruin it. If they can't support you, then why are you listening to them? Your friends should support you no matter what...if they don't...they aren't true friends. Your family...well, of coarse they are your family, but the job of your parents is to protect you, but to let you make your own mistakes. This is one of those times, wether it is a mistake or not, that they should just be supportive and go with the flow...whatever happens, happens...no one can change that. I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. you don't have to rate, but it would be nice. Thanks! [ deathwillcome's advice column | Ask deathwillcome A Question ]
iheartyoussx3 answered Wednesday August 2 2006, 1:24 pm: hey, well its not your parents that are in a relationship with him. its not your friends that are in a relationship with him. its you. just because people want you to break up with him doesnt mean you should. if your still in love with him then stay with him.
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