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a big bitch
there is this girl at my school that is a total bitch to everyone including me. she is really rude to me and my friends and says bad things about them to me. it bothers me alot but i just keep my mouth shut. i want to stick up for myself but i want to be the bigger person and blow up on her. should i keep quiet or say something?
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If you blow up, it's going to give her the satisfaction she wants. If you stay quiet, she's going to know she can get away with it.
I like what Laura said below. Be firm. Tell her you won't take her crap anymore, and that it's really lame how she has to stoop to the level of being a bitch to make her life interesting. Then, walk away, and don't talk to her unless she decides to be nice.
--Jack
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Neither. Don't blow up, but don't keep quiet. Talk to her, but be firm. Let her know that her being a huge bitch is completely unnecessary and totally NOT cool with you or anybody.
That's really all you can do, though. She's probably just really insecure and bored with her life, so she tries to mess with other people.
-Laura (17-f)
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you should stick up for your self but it is not worth fighting over. people are iggnorant like that. i went through it in high school as well. although i only went to that school for my freshman year. you may find other things you could do talk to the girl about it. she is probably inscure or jealous.. not many friends so she takes it on other people.. maybe family problems. be nice to her.
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there was this one girl I went to school with named jessica and she really was rude to EVERYONE.
the first day i ever met her, I complimented her pretty hair, said I liked it.
and she blew up in my face and bullied me all the way to high school.
after 5 yrs i was pretty tired of it and everytime she she said something mean to me, i looked at her and smiled, and said.. "really?" and i would just keep smiling. she would get so MAD!!! after that she no longer had power over me and she eventually stopped completely!
hope this helps! =]
steph
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