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high school vs. middle school
what's the major differences between middle school and high school? i am going to be a freshman and i'd like to know some hints & the major differences. also, whats the first day like? thankyouu muchly.
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On the first day of highschool, all the upper classmen shove the freshmen into lockers and some in the nearest trashcan.
Just kidding...
On the first day, it's chaos for EVERYONE..except the seniors. The only big worry is finding your classes and finding your friends at lunch so you don't end up at a table by yourself. That's pretty much it. It's easy on the FIRST day, or the first and second days if you have block schedule. Day two you start working.
High school is just bigger and harder than middle school and something the upper classmen like to pick on the under classmen because they are new to the school and don't know it like they do. At first it will be confusing but when you find everything it will be so much easier and you'll have your friends there with you so they will be going through the same thing.
Hints for a good 4 years:
-don't talk about the upper classmen, they, or someone bigger, will try to kick your ass.
-don't try to steal boyfriends//girlfriends.
-don't act like you own the place just because you're out of middle school, the upper classmen don't like it and will pick on you and then they will end up shoving you into a locker, not kidding.
-be nice to everyone but if someone is pushing you around then stand up for yourself, even if it is an upper classmen, and make sure if you end up fighting that you can kick their ass.
-don't talk to the upper classmen unless they talk to you first.
-most of the upper classmen will call you "fish" or "fishie" or "stupid freshman" but that's only because you're new and most of them had to go through it when they were freshman.
-try to relax the first day, if you're late to a class don't sweat it, most teachers don't care if you're late, they just care that you actually came.
If you have any questions or need anymore advice for the first day or so, just drop a question in my inbox.
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All highschools and middle schools are different depending on where you live. But all schools have some basic similarites. I was a freshman last year, and I learned a lot of things the hard way. I wish I would have known about this website before I started high school, maybe I could have got some pointers also.
When you make the transition between middle school and highschool, you'll learn that you have a lot more responsibilities as a freshman. This can be a good and a bad thing. At my middle school, we had to stay in the cafeteria during the entire lunch period even after we were done eating. At the highschool we were allowed to go wherever we wanted during lunch period. Also, at the highschool they aren't as strict on dress codes and PDA, [AKA- public display of affection] at least at my school. In middle schools, the teachers usually baby you. They will be like, "Ok now, you need to do your homework. Have you done it yet..?" In a really sweet baby voice. But at the highschool you either do your homework or you get a 0. That simple, there are absolutely no excuses, which kind of sucks I will admit. We also had a lot more freedom. We were pretty much allowed to go and do whatever we wanted as long as were willing to 'accept the consequences' as they call it. Which means they won't even try stopping you from skipping, they will just go on like you aren't there, which really hurts you in your grades.
Also you may hear of a thing called "Freshman Initiation" or "Freshman Friday" or something along these lines. The seniors will tell you before you go up there that they are going to do all this bad stuff to you on the first day of school. Some examples of Freshman Friday are getting beat up, pushed around in the lunch line, getting slammed in lockers and trashcans, ect. My highchool is on a huge hill, almost cliff like, and they told all of us that they were going to 'through us over the hill' as they call it. It's a tradition that's been around for decades. My mom even went through it. Turns out there was no being thrown over a hill. I think it's all just a hoax. To be honest, I live in a really small town so that may have something to do with it. I guess it may really happen in big city schools, but not here. If Freshman Friday does happen at your school, just keep in mind that you will be a senior one day ;)
But mainly the only thing that you should worry about is finding your classroom and getting shoved and pushed in the hallways. That's about it. Usually on the first day you go into your homeroom (which you usually only go to the first week of school) and they will pass out your schedules and tell you where all of your classrooms are. If you have any questions, this is the time to ask your homeroom teacher. Don't be afraid to, I was and I ended up regretting not asking questions that I really needed answered.
Keep in mind that this is just what goes on at my school. Don't be nervous because highschool is 10x's better than the little school. Good luck, and enjoy the next four years of your life :)
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Freshman year is a big difference from middle school. The one thing ive noticed is people maturing. theres a lot less drama! One thing thats hard though is you can't slack off. You need to keep ontop of your assignments and projects. Absents are a huge problem also, (especially in science -labs and such). I think you'll love high school. you have alot more freedom and you meet new people! Theres a whole bunch of activities to do. That would be one thing id encourage you to do. If your involved in a sport or would like to do drama or something! getting involved makes highschool that whole much better.
My first day was scary. If you have a class with one of your good friends just keep anticipating it during the day. Just tell yourself " oh yes im going to see _____ soon!" Also the first day/week you can be late without problems. and the teachers are really nice about you adapting to the school. && don't worry about upper classmen. we arent as mean as people might say [: and if some upperclassmen are mean or the pick on you just ignore them. they'll get bored and leave you alone!
some hints? you'll get the hang of all the tricks and stuff half way through the year. If you have a more specific question just ask! [:
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I think maturity is a big difference. Alot of people change and its not all fun it games anymore.. well it is but in a new kind of way.
Instead of being focused on gettingready for highschool its alot more on grades and college
for my school my first day of freshman year was scary (i have a college style campus) i was affraid i was going to get lost. really you arent bullied by upper classman its more like they enjoy laughing at you when you get lost and what not (i am going to be a junior)
but dont worry you will be fine
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Honestly, freshman year of highschool was actually my favorite year. It just seems like everyone suddenly grows up and becomes more mature to fit in with the older kids, which helps alot. Everyone in your grade will be in the same position as you.. scared.. not knowing what to expect, and I remember making alot of new friends that year just because everyone my age was going through the same thing. Middle school is kind of secluded and of course not that big, atleast at my school they were strict and would always say "you can't get away with this in highschool" but they were wrong. I guess it depends where you go. Highschool they expect you to be more responsible and mature so its a slightly different atmosphere. They aren't going to call youre parents if youre doing bad in class, make sure you do your hw all the time.. etc. Highschool is tough though so you wanna make sure you do it anyway! The first couple months will seem very overwhelming, just because the older kids look so... old. But once you get to be their age you look at yourself and realize you were the person you used to be intimidated by. I'm sure you'll get lost alot, my school had multiple buildings and I remember all the older kids laughing at us because we were no where near where we were supposed to be. But the reason most people get scared is because they feel like they're going through it alone.. when actually you're entire grade is feeling the exact same thing as you. Joining a sport or club helps.. you'll meet more people, especially people in different grades and it will help you adapt. I wish I was in your position, highschool for me was so much fun and I miss it, so enjoy. Otherwise, there's really nothing else different rather than changing over to a bigger school. Good Luck!
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I was a freshman last year, so I know what this is like.
A major difference between middle school & high school is that your not the oldest anymore! That was the biggest thing I had to get adjusted to. Your now the youngest.
The first day of school isn't bad. You meet a lot of people, and you meet up with old friends. It might be a little hectic if you cant find your classes the first couple of days, but don't worry, theres always teachers who are there to help.
Now, everyone says that freshman year is so horrible, but honestly, it's not that bad. The upperclassmen try to make you so scared but most of the time, they don't even pay attention to you. So don't worry.
Hope I helped. Good luck in Highschool!
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I was a freshmen last year, so I know exactly how you feel. I was so scared - terrified! I heard upperclassmen beat you up..not true. You might get lost the first day but theres tons of teachers around! Dont be late trying to find a class, ask someone! You will be held responsible in high school. Things like not passing in your homework are different in high school. In middle school, you might get yelled at or they are mad at you for it. But in high school they treat you like an adult and actually do the OPPOSITE. They dont care - but you will find out what happens when you get a lower grade on your final grade. High school is all about being organized. You have to keep your stuff organized or you wont be able to do ANYTHING. As for friends, I would STRONGLY suggest joining a team or club. I wanted to meet upperclassmen, so I joined the tennis team and I met tons of girls in higher grades who were really nice. Also, the boys are really hottt. :] So, if you have some older ones in your class - go for it. Tons of girls who are in my grade ended up with junior boyfriends or seniors even! Thats the BIGGEST difference I think in high school..grades stop mattering. If youre a sophomore dating a senior, no one thinks twice. Where in middle school that'd be a 6th grader dating an 8th grader. It'll be fine. High school is NOT scary. You wont get drugs shoved down your mouth, and people drink but they dont force you to do anything..thats just movies and stuff. :] Good luckk!
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