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Sensitive


Question Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 6:30 pm

Everyone is always saying i am too sensitive, even my friends! Once i was playing cards with my friends and then we played a joke on a friend taking away her card and she slapped my leg at least 5 times. So i told my friend and this boy was listening and said what you going to go cry about it. I get sad so then people say to me i am starting drama. I really need help on this!

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xoIDOLox answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 5:21 pm:
When your friend slapped your leg, she was probably just trying to be playful. If she really did do it with intentions to hurt you, then you have a right to be upset. As to what the boy said, he was probably just trying to upset you. That's just what boys do. Never listen to them. ;)

Try not to take things so seriously. Interpret other's feelings and intentions before you start getting angry or upset.

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pinkers answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 2:33 pm:
Ok, next time this happens, i would just say, No, and i really wasnt talking to you...but please stop because i do not appreciate being slapped. If they continue to do it, just go and find something else to do...after a while they will get the message. I hope i helped.

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BLONDShorty answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 12:21 am:
its ok. you don't have to put up with that anyways. just tell her that it hurt you. no one has to put up with that. and tell her you're not causing a drama. and that if she didn't want to start up a show, she should have known better

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holahayley56 answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 9:52 pm:
How old are you?
If you're 12 & up.
Then, yes you're causing drama. I mean get over it. Hit them back. You shouldn't get so worked up about little things. You need to go with the flow more. Like, I mean.. you can always tell the girl to stop? If its leaving a red mark, or something. Or it actually hurts. Or you could be like in a silly voice & say the girls name, & give her like a face. I do that alot, & everyone just laughs. & the person stops.

If your under 12.
Then, I don't blame you for getting upset. And all you gotta do is, just tell them to stop & that its hurting your feelings. & if they don't like that, then oh well. Life goes on.

Hope I helped! bye =)

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