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What do you do when a friend for 9 years gets upset because they were told that you said something supposedly They won't talk about it. They say that they are upset and won't tell you what was said so that you can deny or explain
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well that situation really sucks. but honestly theres not much you can do about it. the more you bother your friend about it, the more he or she will hold back. when someone does this its because it makes them feel better about themselves when they relize other people care what they think.even though it bothers you, dont let that show. im SURE that your friend will come around and tell you. i mean, if you guys have been tight for 9 years....that says that you guys must really care and love each other.
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I'm sorry, but I think their just being very dramatic and want attention. Their just trying to cause trouble if they won't let you explain. Sorry, thats my opinion. If you really want to know, talk to her best friends and see if they know anything. See if they can get her to talk to you. Try calling her and emailing her til she talks to you. Sorry, good luck!
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do you mean if your friends for 9 years get upset because they heard something you said and they wont tell you wat it is so you cant deny or explain whether you really said it or not? then i have an answer for you. if you are persitant enough, or you ask other people who no whats what what you supposedly said, you can find out and talk to them even if they dont want to hear. you can do this is person or a letter to some of them, because its easier if you dont have to be there when they read it. tell them you really wanna be friends with them you miss them, and your sorry. if they dont tell you, they dont want you to explain yourself, so they probably dont want to be your friend, which means, i hope at least, you dont want to be their friend either
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well a friend for nine years is important to keep. But it depends, I mean.. if they wont tell you its because its not true. tell her you didnt say anything and you arent going to be concerned because if she wont tell you, there is nothing you can do. Its just drama. it will pass. It happens all the time. I hope she will tell you though because I know how it feels to be in your position. I'm sure shes just over reacting. Just try to talk to her about it and sound really concerned; if that doesnt work then like i said before, dont let it phase you.
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