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my ex
me and my ex still have feelings for each other. i know he does because he tells me he does and we promised to date again once skool starts. but here's the problem we also said that we had summer off so we could date other people and he got a girlfriend. i didn't cuz well i don't really care for anybody but him. so anyways i think that girl and him might stay together for a long time and i'm worried cuz i love him and he's all i want. wat should i say to him. should i try to brake them up. i 'm really confused please help.
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Well it wasn't really nice for him to make a promise he couldn't keep. Unless he's a short relationship guy you should have seen this coming. I mean if he's a long relationhship type of guy then obviously summer is not going to be their whole relationship. If you want to test his feelings for you you should get a boyfriend or just start hanging out with a beesst besttt guyfriend to make him jealous. :) kind of evil but still lol. If he still stays with the other girl then I guess your gonna have to either move on or just give him some time. Hope i helped.
<3marissa
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It has to be hard for you to handle this, but it wasn't a great idea to make promises you obviously can't keep.
Lets just face the facts here. We both know it wouldn't be right to break them up. It's rude to his girlfriend who is unaware of this situation, and it basically makes you look like a mean person. You're better off waiting and moving on with your life like he has. I'm not saying that he's over you, but it's really hurtful to yourself by just waiting for him to come back. You don't want to put yourself through waiting for this guy or you'll be miserable when school starts back up and it'll be a bad start for the year.
If anything, I'm really confident that this guy isn't meaning to hurt your feelings. You have both made a mistake by making a promise that can't be kept. If you both wanted to date and really be with each other, then why did it have to wait until summer is over? It sounds to me like maybe this guy could have been digging up an excuse to get out of dating you. I'm not saying it's true, but it seems odd that it had to wait. Don't be afraid to move on and get to know other guys, I can personally promise you that you'll be better off moving on like he has.
-TheTeenGirl
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Hi, don't break them up. It could ruin your chances of becoming his girlfriend again. Your better off just remaining a friend to him for now. I know thats not what you want but you know he's found someone else for now and as much as it might hurt you need to just leave him and her. However becoming his friend is alot better than not being anything to him. The only other way to express your feelings to him is by just telling him that you still have feelings for him and that should give him a decision for who he's going to go out with. Hope things go well for you. If things don't go well then just remain a friend and wait and see. He may yet change his mind. Daniel.
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Trying to break someone up causes a lot of drama and will give you a bad name. If i had a guy i really wanted to be with and he really wanted to be with me too..i would be with that person. in other words..if he truly wants you..then he will come to you. hopefully it will work out but it sounds like he might be getting aattached to this girl. all you can do is chill and wait it out. hopefully it will work out in your favor
good luck!!
<33 melissa
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Talk to him, ask if your plans to get back together are still on. If he says no act like you don't care and make him think it's a good thing because you have another guy you want. Actually find someone else if he says no, find someone A.S.A.P. that way he will get MAJOR jelous and hopefully will realize he made a mistake and try to get you back. I hope I helped.
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Dont try to break them up, it will only cause problems. If he likes you enough,he would break up with her. So, in the meantime all you can do is wait and see what happens
Good luck
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