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Unconvinced mother
I just turned 13, and I've been beging my mother to get my hair dyed black since I was 11. Since it's summer I also want blue highlights (temorary!)She still hasen't given in. How should I convince her?
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I would try using temporary hair dye (without the blue highlights, take it slow) and then see how she reacts to it. Her reaction to the color and how it looks on you may change. And if not, give her time to change her mind.
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I would tell her that I will pay for it. If i don't like it it's my mistake and my hair.
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I know you can buy temporarely dyes at Hot Topic..I think honestly you should obey your mother`s wishes but if it was me i probably wouldn`t && i agree with the person below me it is easier to get forgiveness then permission so if its worth it go ahead && do it with out her permission..You might learn a lesson from doin it yourself like i did..
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yea go to hottopic.com it has unpermanent hair dyes that only last a week. a week or experimenting is ok, and your mom should let you because its your body, your hair, so its in a way, your choice.
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Every year, millions of teenagers dye their hair against their parent's wishes. I'm not saying you should just go and do it, especially if she's the hardcore type who'd just make you dye it back, but I do know it's easier to ask forgiveness than permission.
I mean, if dying your hair is the worst thing you ever do, you're still a pretty good kid. Maybe dye it at a friends house, call her up and tell her you're all doing drugs. Then when she starts freaking out tell her you were just joking about the drugs but DID just dye your hair black with blue highlights... it won't sound so bad :)
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have you asked your mother why she has refused to let you dye your hair? and dying your hair black doesn't usually work very well with many people, perhaps your mother fears that if she lets you dye your hair black you may regret the decision? what ever her reasons not to let you dye your hair you need to know before you try to convince her of anything. hope that helps! and go talk to your mother about why she is refusing to let you dye your hair - before that you can't do anything really because you've got nothing to bargain on, or to argue on at any rate.
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