am i wrong that i don't want to like this boy, even though i do, because of 'status' like i'm on top. i know it. but... hes not. so, like what should i do? i really like him. but i'm not sure like what my friends will think or anything.
oOoCourtJesterOoO answered Saturday July 8 2006, 12:57 pm: O__O It's a sad day when someone feels they can't be in a relationship because of their 'status'. It's not the right way to judge someone, how has everyone failed to see that? Well, I think you've seen past the status and I'm proud of you. If you like him, your friends better respect that. If they didn't, are they your true friends? Because if you drop him because some other people who think they're all that classify him a 'loser' you could really be missing out on a wonderful guy. Go with your feelings. Who knows? Maybe one of your other friends likes a guy 'not on top' as you say, too, and she'll be happy you had the courage to go against the status quo. =P [ oOoCourtJesterOoO's advice column | Ask oOoCourtJesterOoO A Question ]
orphans answered Thursday July 6 2006, 10:33 pm: If they are really your friends, they will support you on who you like. And who cares if your on top and he's not? And your not wrong to like him, you can't feel bad about who you like. And trust me, when your older it wont matter about looks or if he's cool or not. I know how you feel though, you don't know what people will say and afraid they will say bad things. So if i were you, i'd tell your friends that you like him, and if their not supportive..just ignore them and go for it!
Good Luck :) [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
xosweetiepiexo answered Thursday July 6 2006, 10:43 am: the obvious answer for me to give you is to not care about what your friends think, but in all reality its really a hard thing not to care about what others think of you. We don't live in a perfect world, therefore people are going to judge others, and it really stinks. if you really like him alot, then thats all that matters right? if your friends are true to you, they'll accept your decision.
You're not exactly wrong to not want to like this boy, but you can't help who you like. There's no changing what your heart wants. So i'd say you should deffinetly give this guy a chance. =] [ xosweetiepiexo's advice column | Ask xosweetiepiexo A Question ]
jumadel answered Thursday July 6 2006, 6:15 am: Hi, it doesn't matter what your friends think? Although you can listen to their advice and opinions, but this is your decision. Asking him out, is a good idea because you will know how he feels towards you too, and if yes, then you can build on your conversation and perhaps turn it into a date. Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
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