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im nothing without him
ive always thought dat my life was messed up. y live a life dat i hate? dat changed after my boyfren came along. i felt special. i felt LOVED. now his paents are moving to NY. real far away from me. im really sad. i hate myself. i hate everything. i wanna kill myself. im nothing without him.is life really worth living for? how can i get over the person that changed my life? how am i gonna live without him? please some1 tell me wat to do? i feel so hated by god. y is he treating me like this? y is he takin away the love of my life? please help! :(
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Hi, right now it is probaly a painful time for you. Why don't you get his phone number and maybe every now and then give him a ring? The fact is, is that sometimes we've got to let go of the ones we love. You sound as though your desperate to be with him. This is not good, because it may seem as though your boyfriend is everything, but your still young. Killing yourself isn't going to solve anything. Im show it would hurt your boyfriend if you did that. What I think you can both do is give each other your phone numbers and E-mail address and have a chat. Get MSN installed on your computer and you could both talk live. The thing is, is that he will likely move on with his life and he might find another girl he likes. Long distance relationships usually don't work, but as hurtful as it sounds you can still be friends. Put it this way, would you rather lose him as a boyfriend but keep the friendship with him or would you rather lose the whole lot and never talk to him again? I know which one I would chose. Besides if you keep friends with him, when you are older the pair of you you could go and visit him, and just see if you can make it work out between the two of you again. Then you could live with eachother. The chances are that he will move on and fall in love with another girl. You can do the same. I know that you don't want to here this but, there are plenty of fish in the sea and plenty of nice guys wanting to be with a nice girl like yourself. Like I said before, would you rather lose him as a boyfriend but remain friends or lose him all together? The best thing you can do is just take some time out away from your love-life and think positive. Then a few months later get out and go perhaps to a disco or you know the school ball, or a night club if your old enough. Then meet someone there that you like. Then come home and tell your ex boyfriend what a lovely time you had. Your ex wouldn't want you to be crying or sad all the time. Take every opportunity that comes your way, meet guys, and have a damn good time. Because your only young for a while and you've got to make the most of it, while you've still got it. If you ever want to talk to someone, then get back to me on my advice column. Chin up, be happy, you may have lost him as a boyfriend but you can still keep him in your life. Daniel.
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Dearie....
There really are points in our lives that we undergo those kinda stuff.... We think that life's no longer worth living because of *insert situation here*... We think that nobody loves us... We feel like life's throwing so much problems in our way.... We think that God doesn't love us.... But you know what? These things are Natural. We All feel and think of these things at some point. They're [shall I say] Essential,though. Why? Because without them, we wouldn't learn our lessons.
Remember that everything has a reason....and I mean EVERYTHING. God is the main author of our lives that's why things are meant to be the way they sould be. There's always a reason why things happen.... Even the most unfortunate events in our lives have a reason why they happen....
Remember that if something's not for you, it's NOT for you. If the guy you love isn't "the one" for you, then he's not. Now you don't know why God is parting the two of you, but sooner or later, you'll find out why. Maybe God is parting the two of you because he wants you to have room for the person that he Really wants you to be with.
Hope I helped you a lil' bit.
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i almost went though that and will go through everything you aid again in february when my bf leaves. but ,y bf did the same he changed my life and gave me a reason to live i hate knowing he will be with another girl doing who knows what. my advide to you is tha no matter what happens nevr forget him. keep in touch with him and when he turns or u turn 18 go see him. maybe u guys can work things out and get back together.. i mean you never know what can happen.
i actually attempted on killing myself over my bf. i can suggest not to do it because i know how you feel and what you are goign through. i am very sorry but it is a part of life that we have to except.
i was always taught god gave you people to help you out in life and that you should alwasy aperciate them because you never know when they will be gone.. =(
if you need anything elsw tell me and i will help you out with everything.
♥ Steph
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Hey, killing yourself isn't the answer now is it?
What about your boyfriend? Just because he's moving away doesn't mean that he doesn't love you anymore! There are many ways that you can stay in contact with him.
Even if you or your boyfriend can't handle a long distance relationship...remain friends!
Don't hate yourself because he's moving away because he probably hates leaving you just as much.
Talk to him..tell him how much he has made you happy and that he has made you feel like a special person and that you've never felt more loved before.
Let him know that your going to miss him and your going to find his move really hard and that you still need his support.
Can you imagine how he would feel if you killed yourself?
He wouldn't have you to love anymore... he wouldn't have anyone to write a love letter or a poem to, he wouldn't get excited when he hears your voice on the phone, and most of all he wouldn't have your love in return anymore.
This move could make you two closer!
If your boyfriend is the love of your life this move will prove that and eventually if your love stays strong you will be together again one day.
Hope I helped :)
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First off, if you are going to post a question, please use proper grammar & spelling. =) thanks.
Anyways, calm down. Hes just a boy. You can still talk to him on the phone,online or the mail. Just because hes moving does not mean that you cannot still talk to him. You are wrong to be hating your life & such just because a boy isn't gonna live by you anymore.
Third, don't blame it on God. I lost a best friend from cancer, & I thought God turned on me. But, you have to realize.. that there must be a reason there moving. Like maybe its because of the dads job. You don't want him to go poor do you? I'm sure theres a good reason there moving. So, stop thinking about yourself & stop letting the world revolve around him. I'm sure your friends miss you, if this is how you always talk if you do not speak with him or something.
I hope I helped. Bye.
Sorry, if that sounded...rude? In some parts.. but there really wasn't another way to put it. So, yepp.
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