so me n this guy basically broke up. which made me feel pretty shitty about myself. then my mom decides shes gunna ground me for the rest of the summer for sneaking out and going over my cell phone bill. AND then call me selfish self centered manpiulative and basically a disgrace for a daughter. which makes me feel even MORE shitty about myself. ive cried and cried and cried and now im to the point i feel so shitty i can even like..care. i cant see my friends .. THE ONLY PEOPLE IN THE WORLD WHO CAN MAKE ME FEEL BETTER cause im grounded. i want to get away from my family but again im grounded. my mom has 4 other kids my oldest ones BOB n SALLY and she treats them like GODs. like BOB had a crud load of drugs n his drawers and my mom didnt even SAY anything to him! my step dad even told me my mom is different with me then the rest. and im sick of it i get im not speical or worth being cared for but god i dont know how much more i can take
Tell her that you feel like your being treated differently and all you want is to be treated fairly.
You have to tell her that you are equal to Bob and Sally so therefore you should get the same amount of respect as what they do.
Have you tried talking to your step dad? Maybe he can help, you mum might listen to him if she wont listen to you. Tell her that it gets you upset and you want to be treated like everyone else gets treated.
Maybe make some sort of aggrement with your mum about when you snuck out and went over your phone bill, she might appreciate you talking to her in a mature way. [ Roxy07's advice column | Ask Roxy07 A Question ]
holahayley56 answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 12:50 am: Tell your mom how you feel. That you feel she favors the other two & such. & that you really don't think its fair. Because, if you don't let your feelings out.. you could get yourself depressed[it if gets that far] & it could be to where you think of suicidal things. & you really do not want that. So just speak with her. & hope she realizes it & understands!
Hope I helped. Good Luck. bye =) [ holahayley56's advice column | Ask holahayley56 A Question ]
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