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How I can ask my husband to divorce me.


Question Posted Friday June 30 2006, 12:02 am

My husband migrated to Toronto Canada 6 years ago. He abandoned me and found a new love. I found out that he already has a daughter with the girl who is living in Manila Philippines, where I am. He cancelled my immigrant sponsorship 2 years ago, took my money, and sponsored the girl as a common law wife to migrate to Canada to stay with him. How can I ask him to divorce/annul our marriage if he is avoiding me?

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mini222 answered Tuesday July 25 2006, 7:55 am:
I'm so sorry to hear of your troubles. I know you must be eager to move forward with your life. I don't know why he would be avoiding you since he has obviously moved on I would think he would want a divorce himself. I would suggest seeing a lawyer. Many will give you a free consultation. This way you can find out what your legal rights are and what you can or cannot do. See if there are abandonment laws in your state. You may be able to file a legal seperation. That isn't the same as a divorce but would give you some relief as you wouldn't have any legal ties to anything he may be doing. Contact a legal professional they can at least let you know what your options are.

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ernst_384 answered Sunday July 23 2006, 1:56 am:
Call him up/write a letter/send an e-mail and say,"You need to choose one love(er) if your going to be with me then you need to come home now, and if your going to be with her then you should divorce me." Hope I helped.

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sassysara answered Saturday July 15 2006, 1:41 pm:
I am not sure if the law is the same there as where I am, but since he left you 6 years ago he has abandoned you and you should be granted a divorce without his input. I would ask a lawyer in your town/city if you can't afford one I would search online for the Philippines divorce laws and what you would need to do.

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Sunshine answered Friday June 30 2006, 5:01 am:
Depending on where you live, there's probably an abandonment clause. Just file for divorce on the grounds of abandonment and the divorce will be granted and he doesn't have to sign anything.

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aShKnOWs answered Friday June 30 2006, 4:17 am:
Get a lawyer. They know exactly what to do. Two people dont have to be there to get a divorce, my stepdad wasnt, he was doing drugs..lol.

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