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Is this normal?
Ok i'm 15/f and i haven't done anything with a guy exept kiss and its like a peck not like making out or anything. i feel like a prude but i think i would be ready to have sex if the opportunity came up. I have gone to a catholic private school all my life and next year will be my first year at a public school. My question is will things be different will ibe pressured into things more so than at my old school?
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You're just 15, having sex as young as you could be a mistake that you'll regret for the rest of your life. There's always the chance of pregnancy, even if you use a condom. And a chance of contracting an STD. NOt to mention the emotional end of it. Chances are the guy you did it with will not stay with you until marriage. Can you imagine how you'd feel if the guy you completely gave yourself to left you?
You may be pressured into smoking, drugs, sex, and other stuff but don't let yourself cave in. Think of the consequences. You never know, so just be ready.
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okay, girl. i completely know where your coming from. i went to catholic school for the first time in my 8th grade year. and everyone there seemed like a prude. i had already gone to 3rd base. so i was surprised when they told me that they never kissed. but now, i'm finally back at my public highschool, and yea, it's much differnet. you will be pressured into a lot of stuff, but you dont neccessarily have to go through with it.
dont give up your virginity unless your positive that the guy is gonna remember you till the day he dies. you want that moment to be a special thing.
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Hi, there will probaly be the average few teenagers who talk about sex and do things stupid. It is 100% normal to have had not sex at your age. Your still quite young. Don't let any pressure you into it. If anyone pressures you into things then talk to a school Counsellor or better still, a Teacher or even the Principle. Take your time. Don't rush into anything. Daniel.
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You probably won't be pressured, if you are with the right people. My freshmen year, people asked me to go out to have sex, drugs, and drink.. and when I said no. They didn't bother me again. I guess it just depends on the person.
Don't give into sex just because you feel like a prude. You are only 15 and you are most likely not ready. Do you know about STDS? what protection is good? Signs of being pregnant? There's always a chance, something will happen that you aren't ready for. Just wait it out until you are older.
It's okay to be doing little things like a peck. The nice guys think it's cute.
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The opprotunity for sex shouldn't come up if your only fifteen and even though you may feel ready, chances are, you're not. You might be pressured to do more things but you always have the power to say no ifyou don't want to do something. When you stop making your own decisions, you let other people take control of your life. So just keep your morals strong and set high goals for yourself. Good luck!
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