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AHHH so werid
First off I'm 14 8th grade same with the guy im tlking about)Anyway here is the story: I met this amazing guy in october at a football game and have not spoken to him sence.(he goes to a different school)Yesterday during my class trip to hershey park I saw him and we hung out together the entire time. He diched all his firends and just hung out with me and my firends the entire time. I really like him but its really werid. He basicaly does all the talking, I can't ever think of anything to say, we go to different schools and that blocks some points of convesation. He is also extremly popular in his school and well in mine, im not. He wants me to go to the movies with him tomarrow but i think im gonna say no and go next weekend. I'm just really nervous, he might expect to make-out with me, I never even had my first kiss. I really don't want to make out with him...at least not yet. I'm really scared I dont even know how i will probley be really bad.Ugh I just don't know what to do I have to call him back to tell him I can't do anything this weekend and our phone calls are really acword and I like shake im so scared. lol I know I sound like a loser but im just a normal girl in love with a awesome popular kid and dosen't want to make a fool out of my self.
Sorry this was so long.PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE I REALLY NEED IT! i WILL RATE VERY HIGH!!!
THANKS A BUNCH!!
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[[FiRST]] i THiNK YOOH SHOULD GO.
[[SECOND]] i THiNK YOOH SHOULD LET HiM KNOW
BEFOREHAND THAT YOU ARENT EASY AND YOOH HAVE SELF RESPECT AND WANT TO TAKE THiNGS SLOW.
[[THiRD]] MAYBE LiST THiNGS TO TALK ABOUT UNLESS YOOH FORGET. i ALWAYS PLAY 20 QUESTiONS WHEN i CANT THiNK OF ANYTHiNG TO TALK ABOUT BECAUSE ASKiNG QUESTiONS AN GETTiNG ANWSERS ARE GOOD CONVERSATiON STARTERS.
[[FOURTH]] YOOH COULD ALWAYS BRiNG A FRiEND AND ASK HiM TO BRiNG A FRiEND SO iTS MORE COMFORTABLE.
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don't say no!! this is your chance you never know, it might be your ONLY chance. he seems interested in you by the way he ditched all of his friends just to hang out with you and if you say no he might just give up completely. it's normal to be feeling the way you are because i know if a guy i liked for a while and haven't talked to for a while suddenly wants to go to the movies with me, i'd be a little overwhelmed too! but you don't have to worry. if he tries to kiss you, just turn away. when you're ready, then let it happen. just go, have fun. be yourself =] if he wants to go to the movies with you, he must like you the way you are. i hope i helped and i hope you have a good time. you have to go!! okay? =] don't worry, atleast it's a movie, so you won't HAVE to talk the whole time. =] hehe good luck!
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aww! dont cancel and just dont think about it too much your doing what im horrible at and thats over analyzing things go and youll be nervous no matter how much you think you wont be trust me, you will atleast a little bit. go hang out have fun and if he does kiss you just go w/ it you cant think about it too much he seems to sound really nice and friendly you wont make a fool of yourself if you just calm down a bit ive liked guys and gotten so scared i started shaking too but i know if i hadnt made the move to go hang w/ them or even ask them to hang i would wonder what woud happen if i just went. you dont want to wonder whats going ot happen you wanna know so take the leap and go! have fun! and just relax! hope i helped!
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No no, sweetie! Dont turn down an opertunity , because you might not go again, and he's probably as nervous as you are! Dont stress over making out and stuff, if it happens it probably wont be "making out" it probably will be a peck on the cheek or on the lips, something very simple. Call him back and tell him you will go! It will all be okay! Who cares if hes popular, and who cares if you arent, seriously! It doesnt matter at all, if you have fun with him and he makes you feel good, go for it!
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