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this one guy
theres this one guy that i am very attracted to. ive known him like since i was 2 but havent seen him in a while. i seen him at christmas but i didnt really talk to him. hes going to be at my cousins graduation party but i dont know how to approach him and talk to him. what should i do?
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Hi, the best thing that you can do is try and start a conversation. Below is roughly what could happen:
You: Hi
Him: Hi
You: Nice party is'nt it
Him: Yeah
Have you noticed that if you talked a bit like that, then your asking a close question. A close question, requires only a yes or no answer. If you want to get going with this guy then you need to ask open questions. Heres an example:
You: Hi, what do you think of the party?
Him: Or pritty good......
You: What do you think about my cousin graduating?
Him: Will......
Do you see what I mean? When making a conversation, remember these 3 tips:
1. Questions
2. Compliments
3. Small talk
Remember that open questions require a sentence of answers, where as close questions require yes or no answers. Plus, if you kept on asking close questions then your tonque could get tangled, you blush, and get nervouse. People like talking to people who are confident. Shy is O.K so is being nervouse. But you don't really get as much boyfriends or friends being nervouse than being confident. Woman and Men both like people who are confident about themselves. Hope Ive helped a little. Daniel.
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Just go up to him and start a conversation,
see how things go from there!
:)
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