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COMPLiCATED SiTUATiON...WiTH BEST GUY FRiEND AND BEST CHiCK
I met my best guy friend 3 years ago (lets call him mark)...we were friends for about two months before we started acting like a couple but we'rent going out. About a year later we were nothing but friends and a new friend of mine (lets call her aly) needed a bf. So I introduced them. Aly went out with Mark on and off for about 5 months...they have been broken uhp for 6th months now and me and aly have been best friends for a year. Me and mark have recently (2 months ago) had feelings for each other again. I went to the movies with him yesterday and I relized that I had fallen completely in love with him. I dont want to hurt aly but is it ohkay for me to date mark eventually? what should I tell aly so she can accept it. Ive know mark for at lesast a year longer than aly...and I used have a realtionship like theirs before. what should I do??? i'll rate high
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you should talk to aly about it before she shouldnt have a big problem with it because you and mark have had a thing before and you have known him longer 6 months is a long time she should be over it by now..goodluck.best wishes
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i think you should go out. if aly's really your friend she shoudlnt keep you from dating who you want.
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Okay so Mark and you have feelings 4 eachother and your afraid aly would get mad at u? well if u both really have feelings 4 eachother..go out w/ him! and if aly has a problem w/ it..tell her that she and mark arnt going out anymore so hes free to date other ppl! well i hope this helps~
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Megan Marie
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well first talk to aly about it and ask her how she feels about him still. Then tell her your feelings for him. Then maybe even help her find a new guy that she will like to get mark off of her mind. Then you can keep her as a friend and maybe even get mark as more then your friend. i hope i helped!
sincerly,
XxBrokenLoverxX
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well..if you wanna be a good friend you should ask aly if she feels uncomfortable of you too dating. but if you really like this guy then i'll admit that you should go out with him. hope i helped! and good luck
.christina*
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If she is a really good friend then before you act on your feelings you need to talk to her. Tell her how you feel and that you really care about also let her know that neither one of you have done anything about this because you didn't want to mess it up as you both being friends she will really RESPECT that from you and if you tell her how you feel about him then of course she will understand. But before you do anything you really need to ask her about it all so she doesn't hate you over it.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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